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5 Easy Ways to Improve Your Mood

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5 Easy Ways to Improve Your Mood

By Marlo Sollitto, AgingCare.com contributing editor

Are you a “glass half empty” or a “glass half full kind of person?” Unexpected, unpleasant circumstances and difficult people are a fact of life that we can’t control. But we can control how we handle the situation. Here are some tips for looking at the “glass half-full” to improve your mood, and lead a happier life.

1. Face Fear Head On
It is the unfamiliarity of uncharted waters which causes us the most distress. If we choose to constantly fight change, we will struggle our entire lives. We need to find a way to embrace these changes or at the least accept them. Hope is something we create. It’s not something that magically appears from an outside source. We each have within us the capacity to generate and nurture hope.

2. Focus on the Love You Have to Give
People seek and enter relationships wanting to be loved. And being loved is one of the best experiences in life. But do you love yourself? This is crucial, because you can’t expect others to love and respect you if you don’t love and respect yourself. Loving another person, and all the giving and caring that go along with loving, can be more fulfilling than being loved. Focusing on the love that you have to give will change every relationship in your life.

3. Find Peace Among the Chaos
Find your own personal space. Every one needs some alone time. Make time to be alone with your thoughts and refresh your spirit. If you can’t take the time to leave the house, find your own space within the home. Use the office, the den, the back porch…even the basement and turn it into your own personal retreat. Use your time – even if it’s only 15 a minutes a day – to relax, practice your deep breathing, meditate – whatever works for you.

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6:48AM PDT on Jul 31, 2012

thx, nice

3:22PM PST on Jan 7, 2012

thanks!

11:42AM PDT on Sep 5, 2011

thanks

12:57PM PDT on Jul 20, 2011

Noted with thanks.

2:22PM PDT on Jun 30, 2011

Nice article.

9:26PM PDT on Jun 29, 2011

As a teenage school boy I found the ups and downs in mood to be too fast too graph as hormones raged. I had read in a newspaper that hospitals in the UK were painted green because it had been found that this colour relaxed the patients. I thought it would be a great idea to stare at a piece of green paper in order to relax myself, but green cardboard from the stationery shop had no effect. Undeterred, I tried other colours and came upon one which did relax me. I then set about testing the colours of the rainbow in the stationery shop on other people that were stressed and found that everyone has a colour of cardboard that has a soporific affect. The Tension Sheet was born. I soon carried out a test on those with high blood pressure, and found that The Tension Sheet reduced the blood pressure to lower than normal figures in just minutes and recommend that a tension sheet is carried at all times, and that a chill-out room should be painted in the right colour in every tension sufferers home. It is certainly easier to stare at a correctly coloured piece of cardboard or wall for a few minutes than the interference with breathing patterns that most mediation involves. And it has better results. The Tension Sheet was also the first treatment I invented for mental illness and cured several homeless people with it in my school town. Both their own Doctors and local Clergy verified that they were cured.

3:54PM PDT on Jun 29, 2011

be happy, don't worry!!!

1:42PM PDT on Jun 29, 2011

Thanks for the reminders.

6:03AM PDT on Jun 29, 2011

Great ideas. Thanks for sharing.

5:40AM PDT on Jun 29, 2011

Great article, thanks!

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