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5 Reasons Why Good Relationships Go Bad

4. When Criticism Creeps In…
A once-fantastic relationship can turn negative when one of the parties starts picking apart the other. There really isn’t room for this in a flourishing relationship, when both people should be lifting one another up — not tearing each other down.

5. Different Directions
For awhile, it seems you and your new interest are in the same ‘space’ together. And then? She gets a job in another state, or he decides to go to graduate school and focus all of his attention there. Sometimes the circumstances and timing in our lives are enough to end a once-promising union. In these situations it’s not about pointing fingers, but accepting that not every relationship is meant to last. Live and learn, right?

See the other biggest reasons good relationships go bad. And we’ve got lots more dating advice as well.



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2:06AM PST on Jan 26, 2013

thanks a lot of truth in your article.

2:03AM PST on Jan 26, 2013

Sounds about right.

1:57AM PST on Jan 26, 2013

Interesting. Thanks

11:45PM PST on Jan 25, 2013


3:55AM PST on Dec 23, 2012

Thank you :)

8:25PM PST on Nov 28, 2012

great advice - thanks

3:24PM PDT on Oct 14, 2012

I thought my marriage was perfect. then I found out about the girlfriend. Talk about a low blow

9:23AM PDT on Sep 27, 2012

yup, when we are no longer on our " best behaviour" all kinds of things happen

10:56AM PDT on Sep 26, 2012


7:10PM PDT on Sep 17, 2012

good advice

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