8 Bad Pet Parent Behaviors


We’d like to think that most pet parents are kind, responsible people, always looking out for the best interest of their beloved cat or dog. But is that always the case? Far from it! Even the most well-meaning pet parents can do things that harm their Fido or Fifi. Read on for some of the most common bad behaviors of pet parents. And, of course, a disclaimer: all of these behaviors have plenty of caveats, and, ultimately, the decisions you make regarding your pet are best left to you and youráveterinarian.

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1. You Think Your Pet’s Bad Behavior is All — Or Not at All — Your Fault.

Your pets’ behavior is áoften an extension áof your behavior. Is your dog wreaking havoc by running around the house? Perhaps you don’t walk her enough. Incessant barking, chewing things that shouldn’t be chewed, and treating the house as her own personal bathroom: these are all behaviors that, with proper training, can, and should, be modified.áBut don’t give yourself too hard of a time — even the most seasoned amateur can have difficulties training some dogs, and some dog breeds in particular. That’s when it’s best to get the help of a seasoned professional.

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2. You Let Your Dog Jump on Strangers.

Sure, you might think that your dog is the friendliest, sweetest and most fun animal on the planet. But the hard truth is that, well, not everyone feels that way. Plenty of people out there are afraid of dogs, are allergic, or just don’t appreciate a strange animal jumping on them. Plenty of people with dogs don’t appreciate a strange dog coming up to their beloved pooches.áWhat may be cute to you is annoying and rude, or even scary, to someone else. If your dog has a tendency to jump on strangers, training and a leash can go a long way to prevent that.

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3. You Won’t Take Your Cat to the Vet.

Most cats, and dogs, too, aren’t exactly excited to go to the veterinarian. But are humans gung-ho about visiting the doctor? Yes, it can be very, very traumatic on your cat to go to the vet. But not going to the vet has its consequences, too — would you rather your cat get very sick from a preventable problem? If your cat (or you) really can’t handle it, there are manyávets that make house calls, though you’ll end up paying more for it.



4. You Feed Your Pet Too Much.

It’s so hard to say no to such a cute face! So many pet owners are guilty of over-feeding their beloved pet. Knock off the table scrap feeding, the extra serving of food, and the special treats just-because. You might be giving your pet a little instant gratification, but this can have serious repercussions áfor your pet’s long-term health. Can’t resist the table scraps? Make sure you’re very clear on whether or not a “people food” is okay for your pet to eat. Many foods, even foods that are healthy for humans, can be deadly for cats and/or dogs.

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5. You Treat Your Pet Like a Doll.

Your dog is not a fashion accessory, a baby, or a doll — so don’t treat it like one! As much as you want to pamper your pet, Fifi is an animal, and no amount of fancy sweaters, shoes, or pet strollers is ever going to turn your pet into something it isn’t. As long as you get the seal of approval from your vet, let your dog out to play. Let her feet touch the ground. Let her walk on her own. Let her be a dog! Unless your dog is small, old, or sick, or the weather is particularly cold, your dog will do fine without a sweater.

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6. You Didn’t Let Your Lifestyle Dictate What Breed You Should Get.

Is your border collie miserable in your tiny apartment? Your bulldog not keeping up with your active lifestyle? Your dalmatian snapping at your young children? There is often a good reason for that: you just didn’t choose the right breed of dog for your lifestyle. Choosing the right pet for you is about more than just which breed is the cutest, the softest, or the smallest. If you find yourself with a mismatched pooch, don’t force it to fit into your lifestyle — adapt to fit hers. After all, you chose to bring your pet into your family, and she’s your responsibility. If you and your pet are really mismatched, perhaps it’s because you haven’t taken the proper steps to train her. Start with that.

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7. You’re Misusing Crates.

It can be sad to see your beloved pet in a crate — it can seem like doggy jail. But with proper training, your pooch can learn to think of his crate as a safe, comfortable place. And, if your dog tags along in the car, it’s much safer for him to be in the crate than it is to be loose in the car. Humans wear seat belts — dogs need protection, too! Puppies in particular really benefit from the crate, because it helps to reinforce all of the training you’re working on. Crate training, of course, is a decision best left to you and youráveterinarian, but don’t be put off from it solely because of your emotions. At the same time, though, don’t overuse the crate. As a general rule, keep puppy crate time limited to 3-4 hours, and for adult dogs, 8 hours.

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Erin C.
Erin C9 months ago

Great post! I do have to disagree with the carriage issue. While most pets should be walking on the ground, a carriage comes in handy when pets are no longer able to get around, either due to age or a disability.

Roger Hawcroft
Roger Hawcroft2 years ago

Valentina R - fully concur with your comment. I've never understand dogs kept as house pets being denied access to the house and forced to live outside. To me, it is like telling your best friend they can only sit on the verandah or in the back garden. I've had dogs from a tiny Yorkshire Terrier to a Great Dane during my life. They have all lived inside with their own bed and space. Never had a problem and couldn't have a dog friend any other way.

In fact, it amazes me just how many owners have little idea of how to manage their pets and, not only that, but apparently make no attempt to find out. It parallels the arrogance that parents have with children - without any experience or knowledge other than having acquired one, all of a sudden they are "parents" and have a "right" to decide everything and "know what's best" for this living being. It's an arrogance and stupidity that given its ubiquity in relation to human beings, it's probably not surprising that it happens with animals that are seen as "lesser than".

About 350 years ago, Jonathan Swift said: "it is not possible to reason a man out of a position that he wasn't reasoned into." - or words to that effect. It seems to me a very apt explanation of why it can be so hard to change people's unacceptable & unreasonable behaviour in relation to their animals.

Valentina R.
Valentina R2 years ago

Very good summary of what NOT to do with your doggie.
The 7th point is specifically aimed at Americans, who seem obsessed with crating their dogs INDOOR and for a LONG time. Safe place my ass: a dog bed is just fine. I'd like to see how those owners would like to be caged.

Carrie-Anne Brown

thanks for sharing :)

Alexandra G.
Alexandra G3 years ago


Roger Hawcroft
Roger Hawcroft3 years ago

Succinct and sensible, Kamia. Well said!

Kamia T.
Kamia T3 years ago

I have two dogs who were abandoned for months on a farm, and had to find food as best they can. They would literally eat everything in sight if I let them, and constantly give me the big doleful eyes when I limit their food, but it's absolutely necessary. My vet gave me a chart on what a healthy dog's body should look like, and I try to keep them all at a 3 all the time.

Insofar as giving them exercise and keeping their minds busy - it's simply a matter of playing with them regularly and remembering that living things should ALWAYS be more important than that next email.

Oleg Kobetz
Oleg Kobetz3 years ago

Thank you

Irina Brenner
Irina Brenner3 years ago

I agree

Holly D.
Holly D3 years ago

I don't understand the fetish with dressing animals up...and definitely the rising obesity rates for pets are as concerning as the human stats!
That said, when taken care of, pets are a wonderful part of life. We just have to respect that they're still animals.