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9 Myths About Soul Mate Relationships

Exercise: What myths are you following?

Analyze it:
As you looked over these soul mate relationship myths, did you find that you used to believe in some of them? The fact is, there are few of us who don’t. But now that you’ve been given the truth, it will be easier to focus on yourself and how you can create what you want in your own life so that you won’t need to use myths as a crutch or an excuse as to why a relationship isn’t working.

Write it:
Make a list of at least three love myths you used to believe in then beside that myth write the truth. You could put something like Myth: A soul mate will make me happy. Fact: I’m responsible for my own happiness.

Once you have three love myths written down, create a plan of action so that you can fulfill yourself and also be a better partner when you’re reunited with your soul mate.

Do it:
Words without action are merely words. Make a promise to yourself that you will begin following your plan of action. The Universe can’t move if you aren’t moving, and it can only move in the direction you’re going in. Choose to move forward with confidence and optimism and you’ll see how the Universe creates positive changes in your life.

“I release all love myths and embrace the truth.”
“Each day I choose to move forward with optimism so that my guides and the Universe can assist me.”

This was an excerpt from Kelly Wallace’s book Together Forever: How To Find and Keep Your Soul Mate


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4:37PM PDT on May 9, 2015

Soul mates ?? a modern cliche and an Ideal we would all love to be... and be with!
but the reality is that this is yet another unachievable and unrealistic aspiration for the majority of us ...mores the pity!!

4:36PM PDT on May 9, 2015

Soul mates ?? a modern cliche and an Ideal we would all love to be... and be with!
but the reality is that this is yet another unachievable and unrealistic aspiration for the majority of us ...mores the pity!!

6:43PM PST on Dec 1, 2014


1:01PM PST on Nov 24, 2014

Thank you for Sharing:)

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3:10AM PDT on Jun 10, 2014

Begin with agreement about spiritual, political &/or ethical values. Add experiences together. If chemistry comes or is happening, that is great, too. We are ALL soulmates. We are ALL interconnected. However, besides working on your own self, it helps to partner with similar in order to save your energy & self-nurture. Creativity can occur with both closely OR widely similar partners. Respect and kindness, intelligence and tolerance go a long way towards wrapping souls more closely. It takes 110% on each person's caring concern part to have a HAPPY soul mate experience. But we are ALL split from one huge beautiful soul and carry stardust in our DNA. You must have soul to recognise soul. Mate? Quickest answer comes through shared diversity OR a cross country car trip.

3:12PM PDT on May 6, 2014

Interesting how the author believes in soul mates, as not all people do. But I do like how the author says it does require work and that conflict doesn't mean the relationship will crash. People are after all not the same as each other and this is inevitable. Thanks.

4:27AM PDT on May 5, 2014


2:48PM PDT on Mar 25, 2014

Thank you so much :)

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