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A Model’s View of True Beauty

A Model’s View of True Beauty

I interviewed a lovely young ramp model some time ago. Tina works out of Mumbai. She is an unassuming, refreshingly mature person whose views on beauty left me both impressed and inspired. I asked her questions that I felt really mattered. I would suggest you take time to reflect on them when you have a few moments to yourself.

Here’s our interaction:

Q: How much time and money do you spend on your appearance? How do you nurture your inner life?

Tina: I spend very little on outer beauty. Long ago, a dermatologist told me that products were unnecessary, even toxic. Her advice, ‘use visors if you’re on a bike, and pull up the windows when you’re in a car to keep environmental damage away,’ made a lot of sense to me, and I have followed it ever since. I use a purely home-made mix of gram flour and turmeric, and use minimal make-up. The inner life is taken care of fabulously well by my strong network of family and a set of positive-minded friends with whom I am always laughing, and enjoy the silliest and smallest of things like going to a mall—even if we buy nothing more than Johnson’s Baby Powder and a bag of vegetables!

Q: What do you think has, or hasn’t, happened in your life because of your physical appearance?

Tina: I am happy with the way I look. I am getting good work. I have done about 100 print ads, a couple of films. But I never fail to keep my perspective sane. A few years ago, I developed a throat infection and was taking steam inhalation, when the steaming pot slipped and scalded my entire thigh and leg. I have third degree burns in these areas that will never heal. And yet, I have been lucky… thanks to make-up, these are covered up beautifully, and I even made it to a major beauty contest. Now, I see the accident as a kind of lucky charm… it was after that that I moved to Mumbai and my career really took off.

Q: Do you believe that life, in general, is easier for those who are physically attractive?

Tina: Well, I guess people do, in general, treat you with more respect if you look good, because it indicates that you care about yourself. Taking care of your figure and maintaining a glow on your skin takes genuine effort, and pays off in the long run if you do it the right way. And professionally, it’s an ethos that you bring to the table.

 

NOTE: The photo accompanying this article is a stock photo.

 

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Shubhra Krishan

Writer, editor and journalist Shubhra Krishan is the author of Essential Ayurveda: What it is and what it can do for you (New World Library, 2003), Radiant Body, Restful Mind: A Woman's book of comfort (New World Library, 2004), and The 9 to 5 Yogi: How to feel like a sage while working like a dog (Hay House India, 2011).

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1:40AM PDT on May 3, 2013

Thank you :)

5:21AM PDT on May 2, 2013

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1:19AM PDT on May 2, 2013

I've already given up. I've tried various diets and exercise, and I've always been obese anyway. Obese children grow into obese adults, that's that. :-(

3:16PM PDT on May 1, 2013

thank you

5:26PM PDT on Aug 27, 2012

Must be a nice person as well as beautiful, then, as she seems to be. thx

5:26PM PDT on Aug 27, 2012

Must be a nice person as well as beautiful, then, as she seems to be. thx

11:23PM PDT on Aug 26, 2012

Thank you

11:10PM PDT on Aug 26, 2012

Finally, someone who hasn't lost a positive perspective on beauty and culture and the environment in that career!!

2:02AM PDT on Aug 22, 2012

Hvala

9:50AM PDT on Aug 20, 2012

Well said This model sounds beautiful on the inside too. Inner beauty will always shine through whatever the person looks like.

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