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The Gifts of Random Acts of Kindness

As my practical brain continued to argue with my intuitive side, I found myself circling back around. I pulled over and asked  if I could take her somewhere. With a deep look of gratitude she and her children piled in and we headed to town.

She said her name was Maria and was on the way to get her food stamps. She spoke little English and I spoke no Spanish, but somehow I gleaned that her husband was in jail, and that she had two more older children at home.

Despite her obviously dire circumstances she had a radiance that struck me profoundly. There was no hardness or bitterness in her beautiful face, just an open and loving innocence that pierced my soul.

I drove her to the place she indicated and said I would be back to pick her up in 30 minutes and to wait for me there. She nodded her head, tears of gratitude in her eyes.

Just a few blocks away was a Catholic charity that sold used clothing and household articles. I stopped in and asked if they had a baby buggy I could purchase. I had just given a ride to a woman walking into town with nothing to push her children in. The volunteer said they didn’t get them in often, but a wonderful Pram had just come in the night before. It was promised to someone else who hadn’t come and so she didn’t see why I couldn’t have it. It was mine for free as a part of their program to help those in need.  She told me to bring Maria back and they would give her other clothing and household necessities as well. She would also sign her up with their ongoing program to provide food and shelter.

I will never forget the look on Maria’s face when I showed up with her beautiful new “Yuppie” Pram. My heart felt full and complete to be able to help this lovely young woman in this small but important way.

We went back to the charity for more items and had the time of our lives, trying on clothes like two girlfriends. She blushed and primped and acted like a grand dame in these cherished ‘hand-me-downs.’ We moved on to wardrobes for all of the children, me holding up possible choices and her nodding enthusiastically when it was the right thing, both giggling like children left alone in a candy store.  We filled two large garbage bags, I loaded them in my car and connected Maria with the volunteer who could get her ongoing help.

In the middle of filling our third bag, there was a changing of the guard and a rather sour-looking volunteer arrived for the next shift. “You are only supposed to have one bag per customer” she grumbled.  Her stiff, disapproving demeanor communicated her belief that this was sober business and we were having way too much fun!  Maria’s infectious laughter propelled me into hopeless giggles, like children in church when something has set off your funny bone. We loaded up our last large bag, guiltily trying to contain our joy as we scurried out under the nose of the stony-faced “Miss Marple.”

Maria’s face from the minute I met her was one of utter guilelessness, like a child who believed that the world was a good and loving place. I marveled at how this beautiful young woman didn’t seem to  show any traces from the obviously difficult life she had led.

I took Maria back to the trailer she was living in. Her children, wide-eyed and in disbelief, came out and took the haul from my car. Maria’s face glowed like that of an angel. She called me her angel. What she did not know was that she was mine.

For weeks afterward I felt absolutely euphoric. I pondered why I was the one that seemed to receive the greatest blessing from this encounter? It came to me that our soul feels euphoria when we are exactly in the right place at the right time, doing what it is we are supposed to do.

I don’t know what it meant for Maria, but I felt deeply connected to her life, as if I was instrumental in communicating to her soul some message she needed to receive. That if I had not done it I would have missed something important in the play of things that needed to take place. That it had something to do with the web of life and how we are all connected to each other. How, as on our beloved earth, everything from the smallest insect to the tallest tree must do what it was designed to do in order for it to work.

I received a powerful teaching that day. I saw that I did not have to save the world.  I just needed to show up and do the things that appeared on my path each day. I learned that life unfolds in the moment and must be lived and acted upon in the moment, or a precious and possibly even life-changing opportunity can be lost forever. The challenge is to listen to that quiet voice and not the often-louder ones that declare all of the reasons why it is not a good or “practical” idea.

There are many angels in the world who do devote their lives to doing good. I am honored to say I have met many through Care2 who work tirelessly for important causes.  But for the rest of us, if the world lived by this simple credo: if we all just showed up and did the thing that presented itself to us each day, we would have a very different world.

Please share with us your own experiences of kindnesses given and received.

Erica Sofrina is a motivational speaker, author and coach. She can be reached at www.ericasofrina.com

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Erica Sofrina

Erica Sofrina is an Internationally recognized Speaker and Teacher and Author of the book Small Changes, Dynamic Results! Feng Shui for the Western World. She is also a life coach and motivational speaker and is the founder of the West Coast Academy of Feng Shui. She has run a successful business as a Professional Organizer, Interior Designer and Certified Feng Shui Consultant for over a decade and resides on the charming coastal town of Half Moon Bay in Northern California. Find out more at www.ericasofrina.com.

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6:11PM PDT on May 28, 2013

like it, Thanks

11:41AM PDT on Apr 14, 2013

thank you for sharing - this truly touched my soul in a good way. I work at a thrift store that also helps thousands of people with food, clothing, rent, utilities, etc. It is very humbling when a person comes in crying and we touch their heart by helping and they leave with a smile on their face and hope in their eyes.

7:26AM PDT on Apr 12, 2013

love this

4:51AM PDT on Mar 30, 2013

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2:56PM PDT on Mar 25, 2013

This is a very inspiring story, thank you.

3:05AM PDT on Mar 21, 2013

Thank you.

9:06AM PDT on Mar 20, 2013

I've read this before,also. It is a spirit lifter. perhaps an omen of someone in need crossing my path today

9:00AM PDT on Mar 20, 2013

I've sometimes felt the flip side of that euphoric uplift from helping by sidestepping the chance to help. You really know when the needy person was intended to be helped by you when you duck out and then feel absolutely awful about it.

11:06AM PDT on Mar 19, 2013

It's a blessing to be blessed!!

1:24AM PDT on Mar 19, 2013

Deeply moving share. Thank you Erica :-) X

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