You're in a good position emotionally to discuss what you want out of your relationship. See if you can find a time when your partner is free to spend an hour or two on the topic so you can really delve into things.
"Learn to say no" - this is something Ive never been able to do with anyone, least of all my fiance. He is a wonderful man, very unselfish and caring, so I find it hard to tell him no when he wants something. Because he so rarely asks. There are times though, when I want to just say "Baby I'm just too tired" and can't - because I can't stand to see the disappointment on his face, even though he tries to hide it.
I guess what it comes down to, is that Id rather say yes and make him happy, than say no and feel guilty. Because even though he does nothing to make me feel that guilt, I still do. And saying yes just feels so damn good.
send green star
hoping that he's waiting for that...my mms :)
Wow... this is really ambiguous. It should make for a really interesting date night tonight. I guess I should go read my husband's horoscope now, too.