Do you want to get your way, today? Then speak up early and ask for it! Being aggressive is not a bad thing right now, especially since you know how to be aggressive and agreeable at the same time. Your diplomacy skills can work wonders for you now, so employ them frequently in every situation -- the coffee shop, the grocery store, even in your own home! And remember that people like to be liked, so don't skimp on the flattery either. Warm them up with a genuine compliment.