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Understanding Men

Welcome to the 10th article in the series Breaking the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle and Find Love.  Reading all the previous articles is recommended as it will bring you up to speed as to where we are i…


Loveologist Radio: On Life, Death and Orgasms

  Susan Crain Bakos has written close to 2 dozen volumes on the orgasmic experience over the last two decades and believes we express our core identities through our sexuality. Listen as she s…


Maturing Orgasmic Potential

  “The great thing about getting older is that you don’t lose all the other ages you’ve been.”  –Madeleine L’Engle Growing up your orgasmic potential is where the meaning of maturity gets …


Ask the Loveologist: I’m Trapped by My Fantasies

  I don’t know why I get so turned on by the thing that I do -- it's so weird I am not even going to say what it is. I have the same fantasies over and over again. In fact, I can’t even get tu…


All About Orgasms

  “The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life.” -Wilhelm Reich Orgasms are the most intimate …


Making Lust Intelligent: Interview with Stanley Siegel

  Bring intelligence to your sex drive with psychotherapist Stanley Siegel. He has evolved his understanding of the healing power of our sex drive over 35 years of practice. Learn how to …


Ask the Loveologist – Am I Too Young to Find Love?

  I am confused. A lot of my peers say that you should stay single in your twenties but yet they are all preoccupied with finding “the one." How can you tell if the love relationship you are i…


Ask the Loveologist: Our Sex Life Keeps Getting Smaller

  I have been married  for over 10 years, but my wife and I have an increasingly hard time communicating about sex. She seems fine about it, but I am not. I always thought we would grow sexual…


Life After the Affair

  Earlier: Recovering From an Affair "The cruelest lies are often told in silence.” — Robert Louis Stevenson There is no bigger paradigm shift that a relationship experiences than …


Revitalize Your Love Thinking

Love and work are the cornerstones of our human-ness... -Sigmund Freud Learning how to stay and grow inside your relationship is an art form, a meditation practice and a work ethic all rolled into on…


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