Cyber Bullying: A Dangerous Trend

By Judith Gulan

Cyber bullying, an ever-increasing deadly trend introduced by the Internet era, is becoming an epidemic in our society today. Educators and parents alike need to come together to raise awareness amongst our youth of the consequences of this dangerous trend.

Cyber bullying takes on many forms and can affect people of all ages. A very common form affects school-aged children and occurs when he or she is “…tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teen using the Internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones.”

The severity that the bullying takes on is only limited to the attackers’ imagination and the resources that are available to them. As a result, the bullying that once occurred solely on school grounds, is now following students home.

Children no longer have a safe haven, because access to the Internet or phone messaging is readily available and direct. Forms of cyber bullying include but are not limited to: stealing passwords, sending pictures through email or text message, creating malicious websites, blogs and internet polls, and sending harassing instant messages or text messages.

The effects of cyber bullying are far-reaching and sometimes deadly. Kids feel more empowered to be as mean as they want because the words are not spoken but instead are typed. With just a click, the attacker can post or send harassing and threatening information to multiple people. Also troubling, the attacks can be anonymous if the aggressor chooses to make a false email address or profile. Attacks can also seem inescapable, and as a result have led to far too many suicides.

Teachers and parents need to educate themselves on this topic and communicate with their children about all types of bullying. Parents can find resources online, and can take many precautionary measures to protect their children from cyber bullying.

Parents should monitor their children’s use of the Internet and phone. Both parents and teachers need to educate students on the steps that can be taken if they are being cyber bullied. Ensuring there is an open line of communication will enable children to confide in adults with these issues. Victims should not react to an attack but take on preventative measures to prohibit another attack from taking place. Kids can block a bully from their buddy list on certain social networking sites and tell an adult about the incident. Also, kids need to be more discreet when it comes to sharing information via digital devices. They need to ask themselves if they would be embarrassed if the contents of their message reached someone other than the intended recipient.

Coming together as educators and parents is necessary when it comes to battling the war against cyber bullying. There are numerous online resources available that can educate you on this topic. As technology becomes more prominent in our lives, it is important that this growing epidemic is addressed so no more children suffer at the hands of cyber bullies.

Judith Gulan is a DePaul University graduate student studying Elementary Education.


Read more Care2 articles on bullying:

Turning the Tables on the School Bully
Sticks and Stones Can Break My Bones, Cyberbullying Can Potentially Kill

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Danuta Watola
Danuta Watola3 years ago

Excellent article.

colleen prinssen
colleen p.4 years ago

exclusion and torument is part of peoples cultures, but when done here to peers it is a crime.

after we fix this, we must abolish(BY FORCE) any nation or culture with caste systems. who snub the sick and deformed, and kill people who they think are witches.

this is a good thing. it is a necessary sacrifice. no mater how it is done.

won't the world be better?

and what if some people deserve to be bullied? won't you all be happy if some dimwit who is into bestiality was tormented to death?

what about all you/the animal rights people who "want to hunt humans" all you misanthropes "there are to many of us, kill some, only let some people have 1 child, Mother Earth is suffering"

you can't have both.

to those people, bullies may be heros. if making 40 people snuff them-self saves a rain forest, 40,000 cows, 1,000,000,210 fish and cuts down on 40 tons of garbage

"necessary sacrifice"

it's a shame this cannot be applied to ware fare.
if tyrants were able to be "assassinated" by a few words

Claire Sayers
Claire Sayers5 years ago

I also think that, among teenagers, the response should be even more severe--particularly when their cyberbullying results in their victim committing suicide. People aged 16 and older, and perhaps even those as young as 14, are beginning to be faced with real world issues--and at that age tend to be faced with more adult treatment. So why shouldn't they be given adult consequences with this sort of thing? Yes, 15 might sound a bit young, but they're approaching adulthood--and if we don't give them the "welcome to the real world" now, when are we?

David Mackintosh
David M.5 years ago

This sort of bullying needs more attention. There is something about anonymity that opens the door to meanness. Wouldn't it be great if we were more apt to show acts of anonymous kindness? As another article says, the key is in the model that's seen all around us. As adults and parents, how do we handle anger? How do we show forgiveness? How often do we perform acts of kindness?

Angelica P.
Angelica P.5 years ago

As if bullying isn't enough now there's cyber bullying! When is it going to end? Not until people GROW UP!