The effects of cyber bullying are far-reaching and sometimes deadly. Kids feel more empowered to be as mean as they want because the words are not spoken but instead are typed. With just a click, the attacker can post or send harassing and threatening information to multiple people. Also troubling, the attacks can be anonymous if the aggressor chooses to make a false email address or profile. Attacks can also seem inescapable, and as a result have led to far too many suicides.
Teachers and parents need to educate themselves on this topic and communicate with their children about all types of bullying. Parents can find resources online, and can take many precautionary measures to protect their children from cyber bullying.
Parents should monitor their children’s use of the Internet and phone. Both parents and teachers need to educate students on the steps that can be taken if they are being cyber bullied. Ensuring there is an open line of communication will enable children to confide in adults with these issues. Victims should not react to an attack but take on preventative measures to prohibit another attack from taking place. Kids can block a bully from their buddy list on certain social networking sites and tell an adult about the incident. Also, kids need to be more discreet when it comes to sharing information via digital devices. They need to ask themselves if they would be embarrassed if the contents of their message reached someone other than the intended recipient.
Coming together as educators and parents is necessary when it comes to battling the war against cyber bullying. There are numerous online resources available that can educate you on this topic. As technology becomes more prominent in our lives, it is important that this growing epidemic is addressed so no more children suffer at the hands of cyber bullies.
Judith Gulan is a DePaul University graduate student studying Elementary Education.
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Sticks and Stones Can Break My Bones, Cyberbullying Can Potentially Kill
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