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Discovering Passionate Touch

Discovering Passionate Touch

Renowned sexual health educator and radio show host of Sex with Jaiya joins us today.  Jaiya works with couples and singles to help them overcome intimacy issues, and to deepen connection and communication, leading to the creation of more fulfilling relationships. Jaiya holds certifications as a Somatic Sexologist, Sexological Bodyworker, and Tantra Teacher.

When Random House needed a “hands-on” sex expert they sought out Jaiya and she co-authored the book, Red Hot Touch: A Head to Toe Handbook for Mind-Blowing Orgasms, with her co-teacher and partner Jon Hanauer. Through her body therapies she strives to eradicate sexual shame and invites those she works with to explore how much pleasure they can possibly experience. You may have seen Jaiya on Playboy’s #1 rated show “Foursome” as a Tantra Expert, The Tyra Banks Show talking about Alternative Relationships, or one of her many Sex with Jaiya videos as a spokesperson for Liberator. Jaiya features her work on her weekly syndicated radio show that draws hundreds of thousands of listeners.

Don’t miss her insights and hands-on wisdom from her book, , which teaches how to incorporate the miraculous capacity of our hands to ignite real passion into lovemaking. Together we explore the many layers of erogenous zones and the simple and effective techniques you can use to access intimacy through touch. This is an entertaining and informative conversation that will be sure to inspire the passion in your own intimate life.

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Wendy will be interviewed by Jaiya this Friday on the radio show Sex with Jaiya.

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Wendy Strgar

Wendy Strgar, founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, is a loveologist who writes and lectures on Making Love Sustainable, a green philosophy of relationships which teaches the importance of valuing the renewable resources of love, intimacy and family.  In her new book, Love that Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy,  she tackles the challenging issues of sustaining relationships and healthy intimacy with an authentic and disarming style and simple yet innovative adviceIt has been called "the essential guide for relationships."  The book is available on ebook.  Wendy has been married for 27 years to her husband, a psychiatrist, and lives with their four children ages 13- 22 in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.


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2:52AM PDT on Mar 16, 2013

Thanks for the info.

10:15AM PDT on Mar 25, 2012

I feel your pain, Deborah. Don't you just feel like a hole? That's how I felt my whole life. From my own experience I found that men will touch and kiss for hours when they are young, horny and "in love". After around 30 their testosterone levels start going down, they aren't as horny and they get lazy and selfish. If you are married, they know you are trapped so why should they try? Women are naturally hard wired to give loving touch simply for reproduction and survival of the species. I think men are naturally programmed to hit and run and they have to be "taught" to cuddle. They don't really like to do it. I would like to hear from some men on this issue.

1:36AM PST on Nov 15, 2011

I remember those days of hours of touching, kissing and long ago, how I miss them. He no longer has that passion, & goes for the immediate satisfaction. SO unfulfilling & boring. Wish I could get him to reengage....

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3:41AM PDT on Mar 27, 2011

Thanks for the info.

7:34AM PDT on Mar 16, 2011


11:40AM PST on Mar 8, 2011

great Info.

4:25PM PST on Mar 5, 2011

Yay for foreplay!

2:52AM PST on Mar 5, 2011

A loving touch is always helpful, soothing and caring, I think

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Mind altering? More like mind aligning.

Super adorable! Thanks for sharing, definitely put a smile on my face :) precious! That thing can keep a kitty entertained for hours!


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