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Exercise To Heal Childhood Anger

Exercise To Heal Childhood Anger

Think back to yesterday. Imagine that your memory is a videocassette that you can rewind to any time you choose. Right now, take it back just twenty-four hours. What were some of the things you did during the day? Did anything frighten you or make you angry? Focus on a moment of anger, becoming aware of the sensations in your body as well as the emotions in your mind.

Next, rewind the videotape back exactly one year. Do you recall being angry or worried about something? Try to feel the emotions of that time in your mind and in your body. Are the feelings the same as the feelings you remember feeling yesterday?

Rewind the tape even father back to when you were a teenager. Repeat the process. Then try to remember an incident from childhood. Notice how the anger that you experienced yesterday has been built on emotions from so long ago. Notice how the fear and anger have accumulated over the years.

Although you cannot remember it, there was a time in your life before you ever felt anger or fear, a time of total peace and tranquility. Try to imagine what that experience of utter bliss might have been like. Focus on a time before fear or anger.

Rewind that imaginary tape of your life until the screen goes back, and feel the boundaries evaporate between yourself and your surroundings. For the next minute, feel the total loss of all your accumulated anger, fear, and ego.

With that feeling of total bliss still in your awareness, begin to move that imagery videotape forward again. Visit the same points in your life that you stopped at earlier. As you envision these scenes again, introduce the experience of bliss back into the setting.

Instead of allowing one moment of anger to build upon another, begin to erase these moments one by one, from earliest childhood to just yesterday. Spend a minute or so feeling the anger and fear being erased by this memory of bliss. And as those feelings are erased, allow the toxic buildup of years of anger and fear to be erased from your spirit.

Adapted from The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire, by Deepak Chopra (Three Rivers Press).

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Deepak Chopra

Acknowledged as one of the world's greatest leaders in the field of mind body medicine, Deepak Chopra, M.D. continues to transform our understanding of the meaning of health. Chopra is known as a prolific author of over 49 books with 12 best sellers on mind-body health, quantum mechanics, spirituality, and peace. A global force in the field of human empowerment, Dr. Chopra's books have been published in more than 35 languages with more than 20 million copies in print.


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7:57PM PST on Dec 3, 2012

worth doing

11:46PM PDT on Aug 30, 2012

Easier said than done.

1:04AM PDT on Jul 28, 2012

Thank you for the happy thoughts, but as they are not applicable, I find myself feeling deeply annoyed by the author's assumption that if I think back far enough, I will come to a time without stress - a time of peace. How dare you make that assumption?

On the contrary, I can find no such time and I know the reason is because my family was so dysfunctional there as no time of peace. I'm not even sure it's safe to assume my in utero time was peaceful, since sounds and vibrations are transmitted through the abdominal wall and stress hormones pass the placenta. .

I also know of friends and family of whom this same caveat about your incorrect reassurance is untrue - and in some instances, I myself can bear witness to this sad fact because I was present for their infancy.

To tell people such a thing, is a sure way not only of leading them to disappointment and dangerous confusion, but it also. leads those of us of whom this is true to feel even more inadequate and faulty than already.

Speak for yourself, and treat others with the utmost care. Such pat reassurances serve only to make adult sufferers from childhood dysfunction feel more pain and alienation than already. I am surprised and deeply offended at this saccharine trivialization of childhood stress, which not uncommonly extends back to the totality of consciousness and doubtless even before. This makes me lose considerable respect for your teachings, as
a) this situation is not u

6:13AM PDT on Jul 24, 2012

very nice.

4:19AM PDT on May 23, 2012

I'm not a child any more.

5:48AM PDT on Apr 23, 2012


9:46PM PDT on Apr 22, 2012

May be hard to do after many years of abusement.

1:46AM PDT on Apr 21, 2012

very interesting, thanks for sharing this

12:03AM PDT on Apr 21, 2012

thanks for sharing

8:18PM PDT on Apr 20, 2012

Thank you, I must try this.

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