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Feng Shui Help for Love and Relationships

posted by Annie B. Bond Mar 27, 2004 4:45 am
Feng Shui Help for Love and Relationships
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Adapted from The Basics of Feng Shui, by David (Phoenix) Nutter (Perfect Harmony Inc., 2000).

Love and relationships are enhanced or put under stress, according to the principles of feng shui. The relationship section of your home is found in the far right corner of each room, or the far right area of your living quarters, from the entranceway.

If your home is a shape such as an L, sketch in an invisible line to make it a rectangle or a square, and find the love and relationship section outside if it falls in that sector. (One person’s house, shaped like an L, had the love and relationship sector over the septic system in the back of the home. The marriage ended in divorce.)

There are ways to enhance this oh-so-important sector of the home, and here’s how:

Add Colors
Pink: Sweet and tender love.
Red: Fiery passion.
White: Purity and fidelity.

Grow Plants
Self-propagating plants.
Perennials.

Place Stones
To bring new love: Moonstone,
Garnet,
Rhodochrsosite.
To refect unconditional love: Rose quartz

To enhance and maintain a good love relationship: Ruby.

Include Birds
Birds symbolize the union of man and woman to the Chinese.
Look for birds on paintings, fans, and carved boxes.

Make sure that any imagery of birds has more than one bird. Two
birds together is ideal, like an image of love birds.
If the relationship section falls outside of the house (as in the “L” situation above), establish working bird feeders.

Tips
Except for self-propagating plants, make sure you include two of everything, such as two chimes, two flower pots, two red candles, two hearts, a man and a woman (or two men, or two women).

Images of the sun and moon together are very good, as is the symbol of yin/yang.

Avoid
Remove images of angels, Buddhas, cactus, anything that could be cooling, such as a shower. (A hot tub is enhancing.)

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Anna A.
  • Anna A. says
  • Feb 14, 2008 9:18 AM

HedgeWytch K,
Only if the deity in question is Dyonysis or some such... :)

Anna A.
  • Anna A. says
  • Feb 14, 2008 8:52 AM

The term"Far right corner"Makes me think that what is being discussed is the black hat sect school of Feng Shui. Look into the room from the door that you enter most (The mouth of chi). Over lay the room with the bagua with the fame gua located on the same wall that the entry way is in.

Rosario A.

Hi everyone!!
I live in the south hemisphere...should that fact change the far right corner rule? maybe here is the closest, or the left corner??
Thanks! I love this site!
Rosario
(Chile)

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  • Feb 4, 2008 1:57 AM

Dear Judith, A suggestion from me...I feel Love is flowing out of your lives through the river! Sleep with your backs to the river...and persuade your husband to have a studio outside the house in another place...so that hes not always in the influence of the the water flowing away...same goes for you too..spend as much time away as you can! Hope this helps. All the best.
Ranjit

Judith Harris

my husband has asked for a divorce. He is having an emotional affair. We have a lovley home, and I adore him. His studio is on the second floor and he sleeps in the upstais bedroom facing onto the street and a river. What can I do to bring peace and love back into our home

Yvette R.

Uhm, the far right hand corner from which position? As I am looking at the house from the street? When you come up the stairs you turn left to come in the house, and then you have to turn right to leave the room you enter, so I am confused about where to stand when I asess the far right hand spot in the house, living room, or any room. for the doorway? HELP!

HedgeWytch K.

No religious symbols are supposed to be kept in the bedroom, in Eastern religions it is considered bad luck. I find that it tends to "cool" things off. Do you really want the Divine watching you doing whatever in the bedroom?

Jessika Jorge

Why no angels. I collect them and believe in them. I feel they are a big part of my spirtual life. Don't ask I just know. I'm not married yet but looking for suggestions if I were to get married some day.

Mc Schmidt

I'm curious - why no angel pictures in the bedroom? (Confession: I have two.) I love this site!

Diana T.

The far right corner of our home is our bedroom! Maybe it has helped us have such a strong happy marriage!

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Adapted from The Basics of Feng Shui, by David (Phoenix) Nutter (Perfect Harmony, Inc. 2000). Copyright (c) 2000 by David (Phoenix) Nutter. Reprinted by permission of the author.

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