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Happy Mother’s Day! Love, Fido

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Happy Mother’s Day! Love, Fido

Mother’s Day is not the easiest of holidays for me. I am childless by choice and have never been called “mom.” No human has ever said, “Happy Mother’s Day mom, I love you!”

But can we be mothers to children that we didn’t give birth to or adopt, and to species other than humans? I am the single provider for two dogs, Sanchez and Gina. But, I usually think of them as my companion animals, not my children, even though others may see me as a crazy pet parent, with my children being of the furry sort.

My 81-year-old mother is 3,000 miles away, and I am very grateful to have just spent some time visiting her. And, even though my dogs are not my children, Iíll be very grateful to spend Motherís Day with them. Whether I take them to the beach, or they sit by my side at an outdoor cafe, they are still my full responsibility.

I pride myself with being a very conscientious care-taker for them, providing a very healthy diet, plenty of exercise, daily reward-based dog training, environmental enrichment, participation in dog sports, playtime, and an infinite amount of love. They wonít ever graduate from high school, leave for college and provide offspring. But, when I adopted them, I promised them a forever home. They get room and board with medical and dental for life. I am their provider, care-taker, training partner, agility partner, canine freestyle partner, and human snuggler, even if I am not their mom.

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By Lisa Spector, Juilliard Graduate, Canine Music Expert and co-founder of Through a Dogís Ear.

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Lisa Spector

Lisa Spector is a concert pianist, Juilliard graduate, and canine music expert. She is co-founder of Through a Dog's Ear, the first music clinically demonstrated to calm the canine nervous system. Their new high-tech pet gadget, iCalmDog, is the portable solution to canine anxiety. Lisa shares her home and her heart with her two "career change" Labrador Retrievers from Guide Dogs for the Blind, Sanchez and Gina. Follow Lisa's blog here.


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5:45PM PDT on Jul 10, 2013

No doubt about it -- I'm Mom to my two dogs. Like you, I have no two-legged children, and I can begin to feel very sorry for myself -- until I hear some of my friends' stories. My furkids have never taken money from my purse, broken into my home to steal, lied to me or about me, or betrayed my trust in any way. Who wouldn't want to be their mom?

8:34AM PDT on Jun 19, 2013

thanks for sharing :)

9:13PM PDT on May 31, 2013

My female family members consider themselves to be fur-mommies as well as human mommies. :)

2:59AM PDT on May 25, 2013


1:12AM PDT on May 23, 2013

thank you for sharing this story

12:27AM PDT on May 23, 2013

Pets are very worthwhile children to spend Mother's Day with.

2:02AM PDT on May 17, 2013

Happy Mother's Day.

1:24AM PDT on May 17, 2013

Best friends ever :-)

12:22AM PDT on May 16, 2013

Thanks for sharing.

8:38PM PDT on May 15, 2013

How nice.

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