How many acts of kindness do you carry out in a day? As you go about your busy life, you probably perform more random acts of kindness than you think. That’s what I realized when I read Linda Cohen’s 1,000 Mitzvahs: How Small Acts of Kindness Can Heal, Inspire, and Change Your Life.
In a chapter cleverly titled “Change the Toilet Paper,” Linda discusses how the little things you do can make a big difference is someone else’s day.
“Keep your eyes open and be aware of what your neighbors, friends, and strangers are going through. It’s an opportunity to pay it forward in your daily life.” Throughout the book, Linda shares examples of the simplest acts of kindness that we can all do with minimal effort.
Simple, right? It’s even likely that you perform these or similar kindnesses every day without even giving it a thought. It’s even possible that by doing them, you inspire others to pay it forward.
When her father died, Linda’s busy life came to a screeching halt. She took a spiritual sabbatical to work through her grief and came out of it ready to embark upon a project: perform one thousand acts of kindness — mitzvahs — to honor her father’s memory. The book follows her journey from sorrow to inspiration through simple daily acts of kindness.
During my two and a half years of performing mitzvahs, I discovered that, aside from the moral virtue of doing kind acts, being kind is good for your health and happiness. The giver of kindness receives as much benefit or more than the recipient. I learned firsthand that it truly is better to give than to receive. From the beginning, most of my mitzvahs were simple and duplicable. I didn’t set out to save the world. I don’t even profess that any of my 1,000 small actions stand out as particularly important or life-changing. But I will assert that each of them made a small impact, and that cumulatively they have changed my life. [...]
My hope is that others will copy my idea. Ideas are meant to be shared, and it would give me no greater pleasure than to know that someone else has benefited from my story. This mitzvah project taught me the key to living well: Be in service and give of yourself.
To learn more about 1,000 Mitzvahs: How Small Acts of Kindness Can Heal, Inspire, and Change Your Life visit: 1000mitzvahs.org
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