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10 Tips For How To Be In Your Body

10 Tips For How To Be In Your Body

For years, I was a walking cerebrum. Most doctors are. Itís what weíre trained to do. As a physician, you canít sleep when youíre tired, eat when youíre hungry, pee when your bladder is full, rest when youíre sick, get it on when youíre horny, or stop operating when your arms are killing you from manipulating heavy instruments in a small dark hole. So you learn to dissociate from your body. Itís a healthy adaptation that gets you through medical school and residency and helps you keep on keepiní on when you feel like quitting.

But we take it too far. We donít know how to reinhabit the body when weíre no longer at work. I think I spent years not having any clue how my left elbow felt.

A couple of years ago, a dear friend lovingly suggested that my life might be better if I spent less time in my mind and†more time in my body. At the time, I honestly had no clue what she meant. Be in my body? Of course Iím in my body! Where else would I be?

But after taking Debbie Rosasí†Nia White Belt training, I now know she was right. †Since then, Iíve done one-on-one work with body-centered therapist†Steve Sisgold (as I wrote about here). Dancing with Debbie and working with Steve have taught me a ton about what it means to be in my body and how to foster a better relationship with the skin Iím in.

I wrote about the benefits of being in your body here, but today I want to share with you a little of what Iíve learned about how to actually inhabit the skin youíre in, with the disclaimer that I still have a LOT to learn about this and am certainly no master!

10 Tips For How To Be In Your Body

  • Focus on a body part. Notice your right fingertip or your left knee. How does it feel? Does it hurt? Is it cool or warm? Do you feel a breeze? When I first tried this exercise, I found it almost impossible to feel anything if it didnít hurt. If my left elbow was just floating in space, I couldnít feel it, but I could feel it if I touched it or rubbed it against something else. If youíre having the same problem, notice how your body part feels when you stroke it with a feather or brush it against the carpet.
  • Name your sensation. Although words come from the mind, they can help connect the mind and the body by giving name to what you feel. For example, Iíve been skiing in Lake Tahoe for two weeks, so right now, my right cheek feels warm from a little bit of sun and windburn. My left thigh feels energized, achy, and cool under my thin pants in the snow. Be specific with the words you choose – does your body part feel stiff, loose, light, heavy, tingly, warm, cold, sensitive, numb, strong, weak, painful? Try to avoid describing your sensation in general terms that donít employ at least one of the five senses. Be specific.
  • Practice movement. Dancing, practicing yoga, hiking, cycling, skiing, and other such physical activity can make you more aware of your body – what feels yummy and what hurts! Even pain can be a teacher about body awareness, so donít be afraid to lean into what you feel.
  • Use the floor. When I was taking Nia dance classes, I had the hardest time feeling my body when my body parts were floating in space. Then I discovered dancing on the floor. By rolling around on the floor, my body had something to be in relationship with. I could feel how my knee felt on the floor instead of just how it felt in the air.
  • Optimize clothing. Wearing loose fitting clothes that brush against your skin when you move can help too. I tend to wear tight-fitting clothes like leggings and leotards when I dance, hike, or take yoga. But when I tried the same activities while wearing free-flowing skirts and shirts with loose sleeves, I felt my body in a whole new way.
  • Get sexual. Nothing like a good orgasm to help you notice your body!
  • When trying to make a decision, notice how your body is responding. That guy who asked you out? How does your body feel – light or heavy? New job offer? Does your body feel open or closed? Your body is your compass. Pay attention.
  • Listen to your bodyís messages. When I had less experience being in my body, massage therapists would ask me before a massage whether I had any problem areas. I always said no – and then they found every tight spot on me! Ignoring the warning signals from the body predisposes you to injury and fails to catch illness before it becomes severe. Now, after learning from the whispers of my body (as I described here in my†TEDx talk), I pay more attention to the whispers of my body as both preventative medicine and treatment.
  • Ask your body ďWhat do you need in order to heal?Ē Trust the answers.
  • Read Steve Sigoldís book†Whatís Your Body Telling You?

You Canít Heal A Body Youíre Not In

The reality is that you canít heal your body if youíre not living in it. Most of us run like the wind the minute the body begins to bother us. Weíd rather turn our backs on our bodies than notice the aches, pains, tightness, constriction, and other unpleasant whispers our body sends out way before it thwacks us with two-by-fours of serious illness or injury.

Itís time to trust that youíre safe in your body and your body will guide you to optimal health, happiness, and vitality.

Are Your In Your Body?

Share your thoughts or any tips youíve learned about how to embody your physical being.

Related: 20 Reasons to Be in Your Body

Trying to†feel,

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Lissa Rankin, MD: Founder of†OwningPink.com,†Pink Medicine Revolutionary,†motivational speaker, and author of†Whatís Up Down There? Questions Youíd Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend and Encaustic Art: The Complete Guide To Creating Fine Art With Wax.

Learn more about†Lissa Rankin here.

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Lissa Rankin, MD is a mind-body medicine physician, founder of the†Whole Health Medicine Institute training program for physicians and other health care providers, and the New York Times bestselling author of†Mind Over Medicine: Scientific Proof That You Can Heal Yourself.† She is on a grassroots mission to heal health care, while empowering you to heal yourself.† Lissa blogs at†LissaRankin.com and also created two online communities -†HealHealthCareNow.com and†OwningPink.com. She is also the author of two other books, a professional artist, an amateur ski bum, and an avid hiker. Lissa lives in the San Francisco Bay area with her husband and daughter.

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8:22AM PDT on Jul 31, 2012

Yes, this also reminds me of Mindfulness as Mitchell D. mentioned earlier. A fascinating experience in our rushed society!

11:44AM PDT on May 2, 2012

Thanx:)

9:17AM PDT on Apr 29, 2012

Thanks.

5:52AM PDT on Apr 28, 2012

Where else can we be?

11:21AM PDT on Apr 27, 2012

noted

6:53PM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

Lovely article - great reminders that we are more than the sum of all our parts, body parts, too.

6:01PM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

Thanks Lissa, good article

2:34PM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

The best way to be in your body is to not have an out-of-body experience.

6:22AM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

Thank you. It's given me something to think about.

6:08AM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

thanks

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