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How to Love an Extrovert

How to Love an Extrovert

Introverts and extroverts are so classically different, its no wonder they need to be shown theyre loved in different ways. Find out the Five As that will help the extrovert in your life know you love them, here:

Attention: Take frequent notice of and an active interest in what she is doing.

Acceptance: Show that you are on her side and at her side.

Affection: Be frequently demonstrative–physically and verbally–of your love.

Appreciation: Make frequent mention and on special occasions a special mention of your recognition.

Allowing: Join her and share in her interests in some way as often as possible.

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Adapted from How to Be an Adult in Relationships, by David Richo (Shambhala, 2002). Copyright (c) by David Richo. Reprinted by permission of Shambhala.
Adapted from How to Be an Adult in Relationships, by David Richo (Shambhala, 2002).

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4:54PM PST on Dec 11, 2012

Short for stroking an EGO! All well and good id reciprocal!

10:23AM PST on Dec 11, 2012


5:42AM PST on Dec 11, 2012

Thanks for this--I think all 3 of my children are like this!

2:30PM PST on Dec 6, 2011

Thanks Annie. I generally steer clear of extroverts since I am a die-hard introvert myself, but this is good to keep in mind if I should ever happen to meet an extrovert.

8:07AM PST on Jan 11, 2011

I'm an extrovert and this is TRUE.

11:35AM PST on Feb 26, 2010


1:55PM PST on Feb 25, 2010

Thank you, I have a good feeling that, if I actually try to do these, my girlfriend and I will both appreciate it :)

4:46PM PST on Dec 6, 2009

My best friend is an extrovert and I can say that all of these advices are trully and equally valuable.

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