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How to Use Feng Shui to Get Laid

How to Use Feng Shui to Get Laid

Even if you’re having adventurous sex all over the place, bedrooms are still where the magic happens the majority of the time. Does yours have a let’s-get-it-on vibe? Here’s how to use feng shui–the ancient Chinese art of creating spaces that foster harmony, health and good fortune—to turn a drab bedroom into a sexy slumber party for two.

  • Clear it out. Clutter is a mood killer. Try to keep your bedroom as clean as possible, so you can easily use every surface for your pleasure.
  • Decorate to captivate. Scrap the cutesy kitten posters and surround yourself with grown up images that are sensual or ones that make you feel passionate.
  • Put color to work. Red, pink, peach, and white are believed to open your heart. Go for colors that add warmth; they can enhance sexual energy. If you can’t paint your walls, try painting your headboard. Even colored candles will do.
  • Select furnishings that feel good. A comfy, delicious bed. Silky sheets. Soft pillows. Try to surround yourself with things that are delightful to touch. This can encourage touching of other things, if you know what we mean.

They say this stuff can be pretty potent, so don’t forget: Once you sexify your love nest, please make sure your birth control can handle it.

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12:24AM PDT on Apr 17, 2013

Thank you :)

8:35AM PDT on Apr 15, 2013

Thank you.

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6:35AM PDT on Apr 8, 2013

urhhhhhh Thank you for sharing :)

2:38AM PDT on Mar 26, 2013


10:45PM PDT on Mar 24, 2013

Mary B, I know I would want to get closer with the one that is well groomed but I definitely know plenty that fall for the messy, sleeps in filth guy. So many women love that dirty love shack experience.

11:10AM PDT on Mar 24, 2013


9:38AM PDT on Mar 24, 2013

Thank you

2:36PM PDT on Mar 23, 2013

Thanx done most of the above, now where did i put my book 'Fifty shades of grey' ??

2:12PM PDT on Mar 23, 2013

Not appropriate. Don't lower yourself or I will be an ex-reader.

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