Train Your Breath, Change Your Life

“If we train our breathing, we can control our emotions—that is, we can cope with the happiness and pain in our lives.” Buddhadasa Bhikkhu

Ever try to hold your breath until you turned blue? OK, so you threatened your mom when you were a kid, but before you would turn blue you would just pass out so your body could take a big suck of air and get back to living. Three minutes, that’s all it takes to rob the brain of enough oxygen to put you into the deep sleep. And yet it is common for people to unconsciously hold their breath for short periods throughout the day. In a yoga or meditation practice your breath is the key that unlocks the door to the inner Self. It is called Prana, a Sanskrit word, which translates as both breath and life. Prana is the vital energy force that pervades our physical, mental, and spiritual bodies, keeping us alive and vibrant. It also pervades the entire universe.

The practice of pranayama (breath work) allows for full control of that energizing force in ones body, providing excellent health, and a purification of the nervous system, bringing the sense-urges and cravings under the practitioners control. After maintaining a consistent practice even for a short period of time, you will find that you will automatically bring your awareness to your breath whenever you need to calm or focus your mind.

I met a man once who told me how his quick temper had ruined his marriage and relationships with co-workers. Someone had suggested he try meditation to gain control over his emotions. What he found was that the angrier he became in a situation, the more his chest would tighten from holding his breath until he would explode with verbal or physical violence. He began to focus his awareness on just breathing calmly. To his surprise, his heart rate would begin to slow, the tension in the pit of his stomach eased, and he could take a full, deep inhale, dissipating his anger.

Godfrey Devereux, in his book The Elements of Yoga, describes how there is no amount of flexibility, strength, stamina, or concentration that can compensate for breath that is repressed in the body. If the breath is inhibited, the mind cannot free itself from limitations from past conditioning and old habits. The breath is the sherpa that leads the climber to the peak of Everest; it is the guide that lovingly takes us through the restrictions of our mind to the true nature of the Self.

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Mac C.

4:42PM PDT on Jun 5, 2013

So true. Great breathing exercise. Thank you!

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3:22PM PDT on May 22, 2012

I really like the breathing practice you offered in this article. I've printed it and will do it again and again. Thank you.

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Vanessa S.

7:48AM PDT on Aug 6, 2011

Great article. I am definitely focusing on improving my health, temper, and patience, so I will definitely be giving these breathing exercises a try. Now if I could only get my ex to read and try this...

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Geetha S.

9:32AM PDT on Apr 22, 2011

Neat. Thanks. The picture of the child mediating is so appealing!

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Lubna I.

2:40PM PDT on Apr 20, 2011

and the picture of the child meditating is so cute :)

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2:38PM PDT on Apr 20, 2011

i tried this just now and it is really relaxing and actually made me feel a bit numb as if i just took a sedative ! strange but wonderful at the same time, i will try to do this whenever im tensed .. the numb sensation is strange im still feeling it in my hands just now while im typing ..i need an explanation for this please !

Freda Lee J.

11:03AM PST on Mar 2, 2011

Excellent thanks!