It’s All About The Vagina

I want to stand up and testify for Naomi Wolf, and her new book Vagina: A New Biography. Because damn, is she taking it on the chin for speaking what I know, and so many others know to be the truth.

Hold on to your hats, here it comes! A woman’s vagina is hard wired straight up to her pelvis, up through her heart and into her brain. When that connection is broken, her entire life suffers. Ms. Wolf shares her own story, which led up to her book. She lived it. And it made her curious. I lived it, wrote a book about my journey, and it changed my life too. The vagina is that powerful. A woman’s relationship with her vagina can change her life — from her general happiness to her career.

And there is always hell to pay when you say the word “vagina.” Imagine what Ms. Wolf is facing by opening the door to a conversation about the vagina. Once again, scientists, feminists, and anyone with a microphone have projected their fears and anxieties about women onto vaginas. Well, we are nothing if not consistent.

Just peek into the history of the vagina: we have lost and found the female G-spot and the clitoris for hundreds of years. They keep appearing and disappearing from medical literature. Is it no wonder that scientists can’t agree about the cutting edge neuroscience that explains the biochemical reasons why the vagina and female sexual pleasure is so powerful (it’s all about dopamine, opioids and oxytocin).

Scientists are still fighting about the female prostate!

I want to say: “Go fight amongst yourselves.” Women who have done this deeply vulnerable work and connected their parts with very little support and often open opposition from society can tell you that the loop exists. Just talk to us.

I know that when I fought through all I had to fight through to re-connect my vagina to the rest of me, my entire world changed. My creativity went up, my happiness and general ease in life improved, my self esteem changed radically into something positive and beautiful, and I even let go of a long standing eating disorder. It was so important for me to tell the story of my sexual reclaiming that I risked everything to write a book about it and tell the world.

I now work with women every day that are on a mission to reclaim “The Divine Feminine,” “The Goddess” or — plain and simple — their bodies. And when they finally connect their vagina to the rest of them, their entire life changes. And this desire to connect to our bodies has no age limit. Every day, I talk to women in every decade of life. Women are catching on to the power of their vagina, and they don’t want to miss out, even if the saying of the word “vagina” fills them with shame.

The experience of orgasm is almost besides the point. It’s more about our ability to connect to sexual pleasure that is the powerful healer and transmitter for women.

I am proud to stand with Ms. Wolf and countless other female sexual pleasure leaders such as Caroline Muir, Joan Heartfield, Nicole Daedone and Mama Gena — just to name a few — who will stand and speak to the facts that we all know: Sexual pleasure and a connectedness to our vaginas is a pathway for women to tap into our courage, our dreams, and our power.

It’s why it’s so damn scary to a world that still wants to keep women tapped down. Imagine if all women were taught that they could find a feeling of enlightenment, freedom, bliss, and feelings that can be called meditative or transcendent through their vaginas?

Is it just so over the top to possibly believe that our relationship with our own vagina can possibly affect our mind states? I echo Ms. Wolf’s question to all of us. Why isn’t this neural science in the news? Why isn’t it on The View, The Doctors, and Dr. Oz? Where is Wendy Williams and Ellen?

Women can heal through their vaginas. Women can power house their life through their vaginas. Women need this information. Read Naomi Wolf’s book. And get comfortable saying and hearing the word “Vagina.”

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Related:
What? We Can’t Say Vagina?
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Sex & Body Image: Understanding Our “Core Erotic Wounds”

154 comments

Carl R
Carl Rabout a month ago

Thanks!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cABVKIPk_u0

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Robert Fitzgerald
Robert Fitzgeraldabout a month ago

YES!!! During matriarchal times, under the worship and rulership of the Great Goddess, sex was extremely sacred as the primary technique for uniting the seeming separation of feminine and masculine. The vulva/vagina/womb was originally THE primary image of sacred creativity. Later came the phallus within the vulva/womb as THE sacred image of creativity. The Garden of Eden is more literally translated as Land of Pleasure.

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Liza M
Liza Mabout a month ago

Many thanks.

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JOEY O
JOEY ORTEGAabout a month ago

VERY WELL SAID & SO WISELY WRITTEN . . . Thank you Ms. Pamela Madsen, I can only say - WOW !!! I have nothing much to add up with all that has been explained in this literary piece. . . Let me just add some more "cudos" to the female power so to speak!

If we will just READ & ANALYZE to its deepest roots, thousands of years in history, it is the WOMAN's POWER that breaks down a MAN's will & strength, both physically & mentally. . . we all knew of the role of women in a man's life that affects their decision making, their capacity to stay grounded, their career focus and ability to succeed. . . and so the saying goes - Behind a successful man, is a woman!

Both RUMI & OSHO if you happen to read their verses and works, uphold WOMEN in its highest epitome. . . WHY???

Because WOMEN are created by the SOURCE as the DIRECT LINK to human procreation and SPIRITUAL WORLD. . .

> when a man & a woman unites in sexual bliss, there is a surge of the most potent ENERGIES that is created POWERFUL ENOUGH to MANIFEST ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING & EVERYTHING. . . all beautiful & amazing POSSIBILITIES DO TRANSPIRE as this delicious encounter is being engaged in . . . these potent ENERGIES are then directed to the SPIRITUAL REALMS as blessing to the MAIN & ONLY ONE SOURCE we call IN VARIED NAMES & FORMS but it's ONLY ONE & THE SAME POWERFUL ENERGY (we call God or Jesus or Buddha or Ganesh or Rah or Mohammed, etc.) it is PURE, PO

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Mark H
Mark Habout a month ago

Thanks.

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Kelsey S
Kelsey Sabout a month ago

Thanks

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Aldana W
Aldana W1 months ago

thanks

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Teresa W
Teresa W1 months ago

Have they reposted an old article?

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Kimberly Wallace
Kimberly Wallace1 months ago

TY

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Carl R
Carl R1 months ago

Thanks!!!

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