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Make Yourself Irresistible

Make Yourself Irresistible

When you exhibit positive and negative qualities, you are not flawed; you are complete. When you are comfortable with your shadow, when you embrace your shadow because this is how the infinite consciousness made you, then you are attractive beyond measure, and your life is an adventure. You are natural when you are comfortable with your ambiguity, and nothing is more beautiful than being natural.

When you are comfortable with both your strengths and weaknesses, you radiate simple, unaffected humanity. This is the essence of being lovable because you are not subject to behaviors that drive love away. You do not constantly look for approval by getting caught up in thinking: What do others think of me? Am I superior, am I inferior? Do people like me, or do they dislike me? You donít constantly compare yourself to an ideal that doesnít exist. Your ego doesnít say to you, ďIím not good enough. Iím not pretty enough. Iím not handsome enough. Iím not rich enough.Ē

If your experience of yourself is object-referred, it is fear-based and resistant to what is. If your experience of yourself is self-referred, it is love-based and accepting of what is. Self-referred people are natural and unaffected by the opinions of others. They are innocent, simple and childlike. Thank you, God, for making me just like I am. I have good things, and I have bad things; I have all things in me. I am complete. Self-acceptance, total self-acceptance, means self-forgiveness. When you forgive yourself and stop judging yourself, then you wonít judge others, and there will be less conflict in the world.

All relationship is a mirror to the self. Identify the qualities that attract you to others, and the qualities that repel you. Write them down on a piece of paper. This is who you are. And if you accept yourself as you are, and love yourself as you are, you become immensely attractive because you are natural.

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Adapted from Power, Freedom, and Grace by Deepak Chopra (Amber Allen, 2006).

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Acknowledged as one of the world's greatest leaders in the field of mind body medicine, Deepak Chopra, M.D. continues to transform our understanding of the meaning of health. Chopra is known as a prolific author of over 49 books with 12 best sellers on mind-body health, quantum mechanics, spirituality, and peace. A global force in the field of human empowerment, Dr. Chopra's books have been published in more than 35 languages with more than 20 million copies in print.

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10:24AM PDT on May 17, 2013

becoming proud of who I am and embracing myself (flaws and all) really made me FEEL irresistible. And I have been so much happier

5:31PM PDT on Mar 16, 2013

I am irresistable :)

12:47PM PST on Mar 1, 2013

Great tips on how to do your own 'self mirror' very enlightening

10:51AM PST on Mar 1, 2013

Thank you, very good points, but self-acceptance isn't an easy thing to do. I feel it depends on what your life has been like. It's a hard road, but a good one to take, but it takes almost a lifetime to accomplish, just like self-forgiveness.

5:26AM PST on Feb 28, 2013


2:02AM PST on Feb 28, 2013

OK :)

11:31PM PST on Feb 27, 2013


11:27AM PST on Feb 26, 2013

Exactly what I needed to read at this moment, thank you.

3:51AM PST on Feb 26, 2013

great article, interesting

3:20AM PST on Feb 25, 2013

Love and Light to you all :-)

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