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New Age Gurus, Cults and Fundamentalism

New Age Gurus, Cults and Fundamentalism

Recently I was pondering the various new age and metaphysical groups, practices, and in particular the various leaders and the styles of leadership they provide. While there are many fine teachers and healers in this broad category we call new age, there are some I’ve seen or been around that trigger an uneasy feeling in my gut.

Instinct and observation tells me to be wary of these particular people. Not only do I question their tactics, but also the blind allegiance that some of their followers seem to exhibit. Okay, it’s true that everyone is human, even the most notable of these teachers and healers. It’s more a matter as to what extent a teacher/healer accepts their humanness or disavows certain aspects of it. There’s a certain amount of power that followers will imbue with a spiritual teacher, so it is up to those of us who take on that role to do so responsibly and in some way acknowledge that we’re simply human beings.

There’s a story that I’m reminded of. The guru was being tempted by the ‘dark forces’. They offered him riches. He turned it down. They offered him fame. Again, he turned it down and maintained his integrity. They offered him all the sex he could want. Yet again, they were unable to persuade him.
Then they got him. They offered him devotees.

I can speak from experience as one who years ago came close to joining a group that had a very strong, charismatic leader and a relatively small group of devotees. No mistake, I gained a lot from my involvement, yet it turned out to have most of the characteristics of a cult. Once I stepped away from it, I could clearly see those features common to all cults, some of which are:

  • Zealous and unquestioning commitment to its leader, alive or dead.
  • Treating his/her belief system, ideology, and practices as the absolute Truth and law.
  • Questioning, doubt, and dissent are not tolerated.
  • The leadership prescribes, often in great detail, how members should think, act, and feel.
  • The group takes on an “us vs. them” mentality, where you’re “either with us or against us.”
  • The group claims an exalted, special status for itself and its leader and may believe that they’re on a special mission to save humanity.

Of course, these characteristics also fit the fundamentalism found in any of the major religions, including what has been called the new age movement. Someone once commented that the only difference between a cult and a religion is numbers. That’s a rather harsh assessment, as I’ve met quite a few folks who subscribe to a particular religion or to new age spiritual practices that aren’t all that dogmatic about it, yet there’s also a great deal of truth in that statement.

For spiritual teachers and healers, it’ an ongoing job to keep a check on the ego mind and, as the story above illustrates, when you get a lot of people paying attention to what you have to say, it can be very seductive. It’s also tempting to try to be a perfect spiritual role model, or at least maintain the image of perfection. People look to you for guidance, answers, and healing, so it can be very tempting for teachers to idealize themselves and deny their human side.

No matter how far along a teacher is on the path or how evolved they are, it’s extremely important they stay in touch with their humanness. The word “human” has the same root (hum) as humility, which implies being grounded, being aware of those aspects in oneself that are common to all humanity. Harry Stack Sullivan, a famously innovative psychiatrist, once said, “All of us are much more human than otherwise.” It’s this awareness of their humanity that discourages spiritual teachers from taking themselves too seriously.

This quality of humility, of being aware of their humanity while at the same time listening to and heeding the voice of Spirit, that separates leaders inclined to be ego driven vs. those that are spirit driven. As a spiritual seeker sampling the many teachers available to you, there’s a simple guideline offered by a dear friend and mentor, Joan Oliver.

Over the years she and I spent many an hour together, where through our conversations and her well-honed psychic and shamanic gifts, I discovered a lot about myself and my path.  On one occasion she talked about her experiences being in service to a particular guru for a few years, a man from India whose name you would immediately recognize, but for our purpose here shall remain nameless. She remembered him as the real deal, and told me, “If you come across a guru who really thinks they are a guru, walk away. If you come across a guru who knows they’re simply doing guru, stick around and hear what they have to say.”

So a guru/spiritual leader/teacher to whom you’re drawn and does a good job of “doing: guru is definitely someone to pay attention to and learn from. However, with one who is ego driven and/or unaware or in denial of those less than positive aspects of humanness, best to take whatever teachings you glean from them and move on. And the best way to discern these qualities is to trust your gut sense, those sensations that are a direct line to your instinctual knowing.

So here are some questions to ponder: Consider those spiritual teachers you’ve been drawn to on your journey. Which ones carried that quality of genuine humility? Which ones did you find yourself distrusting and what was it about them that sparked that distrust? Have you met any that you know were “doing” spiritual teacher? How about any that really thought they actually were new age gurus? How did you tell the difference?

Above all, trust your inner guidance, that which echoes the voice of spirit, trusting that your discernment will continue to evolve and refine. And just as importantly, accept that you’re a less than perfect human being striving to be a better human being.

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8:22AM PDT on Jul 31, 2012

Have met a few cult "leaders" who employ intimidation and fear as tactics and who do not tolerate debate, especially if one disagrees with them and they resort to yelling and screaming as if that is going to sway me and bring me over to their side of the "debate".

Many cult types try and control their members by cutting off individuals in their cult contacts with friends and family until a member only has the cult. It is much easier to get someone to believe what you believe if one has become totally isolated. Often they keep people "on the go" with multiple activities where one can never get a breather and are dead tired before going to sleep. Often very regimented and controlled.

As for Jane B and her comments that her multiple postings were a computer glitch--hmmm--one can see that if there are two or three multiples but at another site I counted around 14 different postings of her same comment. We only need to read it once. There are many members who do this and it gets annoying when they hit the 24th posting in some cases! If it does not work after the second time I always log off and try it again even using a different search engine if I have to.

Even more annoying is when people dump spam/advertising into the comment section. Most of the time they are not even members.

One has to be careful of any one who believes that they and they alone possess 'The Truth' and that the rest of us are all mistaken or corrupt.

10:01PM PDT on Jul 12, 2012

I've experienced a lot of different workshops, retreats, seminars, gatherings of this woo-woo kind or that "spiritual" variety and, like anything else in life, it's a mixed bag. BUT I will say this: you can always choose to see the humor and seize the learning opportunities no matter what. Mostly the power trippers have taught me to rely more upon my inner guidance, and that is a wonderful lesson! And I've had a lot of good belly laughs along the way.

If you'd care to laugh along and read the short story called "Meditation Boot Camp" on Amazon or SmashWords:

http://www.amazon.com/Meditation-Boot-Camp-ebook/dp/B008IVHK24/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1342155628&sr=1-1&keywords=meditation+boot+camp

Enjoy!

12:49PM PDT on May 17, 2012

I have never had one of these "guru" experiences (other than having someone suggest I would make a good one.. whatever that means), but think it is definitely worth forming your own opinion on everything, and that nobody's ideas should be taken without a grain of salt (even your own).

Definitely, listen to your own intuitions about these things.

3:58AM PDT on May 14, 2012

Yes, you are so right. Listening to your inner guide or 'gut feeling' really will dispel so much that is wrong. Thank you.

3:26PM PDT on May 6, 2012

..being duped is sometimes needed to teach an aspirant an important lesson..x

2:57PM PDT on May 6, 2012

....being duped is sometimes needed to teach an aspirant an important lesson...x

2:08AM PDT on May 5, 2012

I'm pleased one of the commentators quoted Krishnamurti. He didn't want followers and encouraged audience members to think for themselves and question everything. There are very few spiritual leaders who are that humble and of the same calibre - perhaps a few Buddhists ...

9:03PM PDT on May 4, 2012

I think most of the dangerous gurus try to draw people in by saying "I can give you everything you want, if only you surrender to me." These gurus know that many people are driven by desire, so try to exploit them through this aspect of human nature.
No guru has the power to give you everything you want, it is a lie.
I discovered this with Sai Baba- a sociopathic abuser. I was drawn in by the desire to be healed. Other examples are Adi Da and Osho. Yet so many want to believe the fairytale of miracles and divine powers.

5:05PM PDT on May 1, 2012

New Age Gurus, Cults and Fundamentalism. Will be the downfall for all of mankind! "GET GOD" and leave the traditions of man to man as they can not save you!

11:42AM PDT on Apr 30, 2012

"One has to be careful of any one who believes that they and they alone possess 'The Truth' and that the rest of us are all mistaken or corrupt."

THE NAZI POPE!!!!! ALLAH!!!!!!!!!!! JESUS FREAKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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