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Pure Sexual Presence and Special Love Offer

Pure Sexual Presence and Special Love Offer

When itís over, I want to say:† All my life I was a bride married to amazement.† I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.† –Mary Oliver

Every now and again we are given the gift of true presence.† Usually it is when we are faced with the stark realization of the fragility of life, the moment of loss or the miraculous reprieve,† when our gratitude for this moment, in this body, with this person† that you love is all you need to experience gratitude so deep† that it wakes you up and changes how you see.†† In these moments of pure presence,† the details that we often think of as life itself, fall away and the mystery of our frail human form and relationships that make life meaningful is all that we have, and all that we ever really had.

This naked place of pure presence is not an easy one to live in–we know in these moments of pure love and connection, pure loss and loneliness, that our emotions are not thoughts in our head, but physical weighty forces that fill our physical body so completely that they alter our senses.† This is why falling in love† or out of love is a full body experience, one that impacts how we see everything, as well as our ability to eat, sleep and think.

Taking the gift of full presence into the bedroom is perhaps the most transformative gift you can offer.† Entering the bedroom with a grateful and open heart is worth a million times more than even the lelo 24 karat gold vibrator.† We canít purchase what we want most in the world from each other.† Sharing our genuine feelings with someone is the gateway to the most memorable passionate experience available.

Tapping into the deep sexual thoughts and feelings that ring true for you about your partner and offering them with your whole being is a gift that will be long remembered.† Replacing old repressed sexual slights with an open willingness to explore your sexuality is not only free to give but will open your sexuality to a whole new level of freedom that will give to both of you in ways that will transform the meaning of sexual presence.

The meaning and love that you have the chance to make in your life is the only gift that will count when your days together are over.† Open your arms wide to the mystery of your connection and donít hold back.† Look for and create the moments when you hold nothing back and bask in what it means to live in the pure presence of love.†† This is what holidays are meant to celebrate.

As a gift to all my care 2 readers,† I am extending our All I want for Christmas Holiday Special to you: Use this coupon Care25for25† for this weekend only for 25% off all the greatest love products and accessories on our website,, until Monday. Spread the love this holiday season–it will be a gift that gets better throughout the year.

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Wendy Strgar

Wendy Strgar, founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, is a loveologist who writes and lectures on Making Love Sustainable, a green philosophy of relationships which teaches the importance of valuing the renewable resources of love, intimacy and family.† In her new book, Love that Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy,† she tackles the challenging issues of sustaining relationships and healthy intimacy with an authentic and disarming style and simple yet innovative advice.†It has been called "the essential guide for relationships." †The book is available on ebook.† Wendy has been married for 27 years to her husband, a psychiatrist, and lives with their four children ages 13- 22 in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.


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8:56PM PDT on Jun 22, 2012

I want those cherries. Ty

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3:11PM PST on Dec 20, 2010

Thanks for the great article.

6:52AM PST on Dec 20, 2010

thanks Have a great new year

10:14AM PST on Dec 19, 2010

Thank you!

5:48AM PST on Dec 19, 2010

I was hoping they'd sell toys, too.

4:44AM PST on Dec 19, 2010


11:37PM PST on Dec 18, 2010

Noted, thanx

6:57PM PST on Dec 18, 2010

This is sooo true, great article :)

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