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Jane B.

7:35PM PST on Feb 18, 2012

Jaclyn, you brought up some interesting points. I too notice that older women are stuck in a subservient prude zone. That's due to social conditioning. However, I disagree that young girls are acting in a degrading and undignified manner. Young girls don't have fully developed brains and they are still in the process of learning what life is all about. Blatant flaunting of their sexuality is a good thing. Girls should date a lot of guys and do a lot of man sampling before they settle down. One of the primary causes of divorce is cheating. If a girl has sex with a lot of men, she is more likely to pick one she really likes to be with and won't cheat later just out of curiosity. Young girls have to build their self esteem, they aren't born with it.
There is nothing "degrading or undignified" about sex. Young girls are sexy and they should flaunt it.

send a green star

7:20PM PST on Feb 18, 2012

Claudia Durand Claudia D.
5:30PM PDT on May 7, 2011

"Sex was created by God as a sacred bond"

What does that mean? Imaginary gods don't exist. We are human animals and we were born that way, no fairy "God" created us. So what is the "sacred bond?" There's nothing holy and sacred about sex, it's a lot of fun and feels good but other animals in nature pair bond and we are not "superior" to animals, you only THINK we are because you were sold a bill of goods that men's sperm is holy and sacred. It's not.

Sandy E.

2:48PM PDT on Sep 22, 2011

I don't get it. Why?

jane r.

11:04AM PDT on Jun 28, 2011

thanks

Danielle H.

6:41AM PDT on May 31, 2011

thank you

Eternal G.

11:35PM PDT on May 28, 2011

Thanks!

Alauddin H.

6:59AM PDT on May 17, 2011

Really lesbian woman have no shame.They can do every things what is right or not.They don't care anyone.Bangladeshi Girls.

Jaclyn S.

2:41PM PDT on May 16, 2011

Thanks for this :]

It's about time we ladies take our liberation seriously. It seems women today are at two extremes---stuck in the 1950s, where their husband has the final say in everything--or blatantly flaunting our sexuality in a way that is just degrading and undignified. Neither of these are good for our gender!

It's time to take charge & strive to be that independent, loving, charming, SEXY, classy lady who isn't afraid of asking for (or demanding!) & going after what she wants when she wants it, in sexual matters & all other aspects of life! Just be who you are, ladies, stop putting yourselves second!

Halle P.

6:24PM PDT on May 8, 2011

Good article, Thanks.