Should I Use Birth Control To Skip My Period?

With the advent of extended cycle contraception (continuous birth control pills such as Seasonale), lots of women are talking about whether or not to have periods. 72 percent of women surveyed say they donít like having periods, and 40 percent would prefer to never have one.† But 50 percent said they would never consider suppressing menstruation with hormones.† In fact, I was just interviewed by Body & Soul magazine regarding this very issue, and itís such a juicy topic, I wanted to share with you some thoughts, in case youíre one of those women trying to figure out whether to bleed or not to bleed.

The History of Menstrual Frequency

First, a history lesson.† Back when we were cave people, women didnít bleed much. Sure, they menstruated, but not very often. They started getting periods late (as we have evolved, the age of first menstruation has gotten younger and younger- we suspect as a result of environmental estrogens found in pesticides, plastics and other toxic substances). They spent the majority of their reproductive life either pregnant or nursing, thus no periods. And they died long before menopause.

The Average Number of Menstrual Cycles a Woman Will Have In Her Lifetime

But the advent of birth control in modern life means women bleed more than they ever have because they can choose how many pregnancies they will have. On average, a woman will have two pregnancies and breastfeed for about 6 months. As recently as the 1900ís, a woman was statistically only likely to have 1-2 menses/year. Now, things have changed. In modern life, women experience an average of 450 menstrual cycles in their lifetime, compared to only 160 cycles for the preĖIndustrial Revolution woman.

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Are Periods Good or Bad?

So whatís the deal? Is it good or bad to get periods? Should we have more? Less? Well, it depends. If youíre not on any type of hormonal birth control and youíre not pregnant, nursing or menopausal, itís not good to skip periods.† But if youíre skipping periods because youíre taking hormones, that can be good- or bad, depending on how you look at it.

Is it Natural To Skip Periods With Hormones?

Well, no. Thereís nothing natural about the birth control pill, the Depo-Provera shot, or the Mirena IUD.† Menstrual cycles while on birth control are not the same as non-hormonal cycles the body has naturally.† If youíre not taking birth control, skipping periods can cause overgrowth of the lining of the uterus and lead to problems.† But while taking continuous hormones such as Seasonale, skipping periods results from shrinkage of the uterine lining, rather than unshed overgrowth, so there is no need for a monthly period.

Why Do You Have Periods When Youíre on The Pill?

The only reason you get a period when youíre on the Pill is because those who developed it back in the 1960ís assumed women would prefer to have periods. Why? So they would know they werenít pregnant. So they would feel ďnatural.Ē† Now, pharmaceutical companies are rethinking things, since many women surveyed say they would love to skip periods.

How Does it Work?

When youíre taking the Pill, the period that comes during the placebo week of birth control is the bodyís natural withdrawal from taking the hormones.† By continuing to take the hormones instead of the placebo, the body does not withdraw from the hormones and no period occurs.† This is different than missing menses when not taking birth control.† While taking continuous birth control, the lining of the uterus gets thin and periods, when they do occur, are often very light.

Why Would I Choose to Suppress My Menses?

Most patients choose this regimen purely for convenience, to avoid the nuisance of menses and to fit with their lifestyles.† However, OB/GYNs have been recommending this regimen for many years for the treatment of endometriosis, PMS, menstrual migraines, anemia, painful periods, mittelschmerz (painful ovulation), ovarian cysts, and heavy periods.

Is Extended Cycle Birth Control As Effective as Regular Birth Control Pills?

Yes.† Like traditional birth control, extended cycle birth control is >99% effective if taken correctly and may even be more effective.

Whatís the Down Side to Skipping Periods With Extended Cycle Contraception?

Well, it depends how you do it. Birth control pills, the Patch, and the Ring all contain synthetic hormones that may increase the risk of estrogen sensitive problems, such as blood clots and, potentially, breast cancer. Some women are also very sensitive to synthetic hormones and have mood issues, irritability or exacerbation of other health conditions. Using bio-identical hormones to help you skip periods may help as a replacement, but they have not been tested for use as birth control, so there is no bio-identical birth control pill.

Also, because you are skipping the placebo week, youíre getting 25% more hormones in your body, which may pose some risk. Although studies to date have demonstrated safety in using extended cycle regimens, we donít have long term data yet.

In addition, menstrual cycles give a lot of information about the health of the body, and skipping them may rob you of this useful barometer of health. For example, an anorexic or competitive athlete will often skip periods, a signal that the body is unfit for pregnancy. If youíre taking extended cycle contraception, youíre masking this signal. You may also blunt the natural ebb and flow of emotions and intuition that comes with a natural cycle, but this is the case for anyone on hormonal birth control.

What about the Mirena IUD or Depo-Provera. Is it okay that I donít get my period with these methods?

Yes. Like other hormonal birth controls, itís important to understand that these hormones are synthetic. However, because these contraceptives donít contain estrogen, they are much safer and do not contain many of the risk of the Pill, the Patch, and the Ring.

If Iím on hormonal birth control and I want to skip periods, how do I do it?

First, talk to your doctor to make sure youíre a good candidate. If he or she agrees, you can use any monophasic pill, Ortho Evra, or Nuvaring.† Monophasic pills include things like Yasmin, Yaz, Ortho-Cyclen, Lo-Ovral, Ovcon, Nordette, Ovral, Desogen, Mircette, Demulen, Alesse and many others.† Patients taking triphasic pills should not try to use their pills for extended cycle contraception (this includes OrthoTri-Cyclen and Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo, Estrostep, Triphasil, Tri-Levlen, Ortho Novum 7/7/7 and others).

To use these methods, skip the placebo pills at the end of the packet and start another packet the next day after the first three weeks are done.† When you finish taking all the active pills in four packets (12 weeks worth of pills), stop the pills for one week and you will get your period.† For Ortho-Evra and Nuvaring, just skip the patch/ring-free week and continue for 12 weeks in a row, then donít use the patch or ring for a week.† Because you will use more pills/patches/rings, your insurance may not cover as many as you need to take them continuously, so you may have to pay out of pocket for one month out of every four.† The reason to have a period every 3 months is to reduce the risk of breakthrough bleeding.

What if I start to bleed when Iím not supposed to?

The most common side effect of extended cycle contraception is breakthrough bleeding, especially in the beginning.† Most womenís bodies will get used to the new regimen over time, but breakthrough bleeding can persist intermittently for up to a year.† Often, when you first start taking birth control in this manner, you will have spotting or even a full period sometime during the second or third month.† When taking extended cycle birth control, it is particularly important to try to take your pills at the same time every day and to make sure you donít skip pills.

If you have spotting, you should continue to take your pills every day unless the bleeding is persistent or heavy. If you continue to bleed and have been taking your pill continuously for at least 3 weeks, you may stop your pills for 5 days and expect a full period, then restart a new 12-week cycle.† Some people can only go 6-9 weeks without their bodies bleeding, so to some degree, you can adjust the pill cycle to meet the needs of your body.† Some patients simply cannot extend beyond the traditional 4 week cycle without bleeding. Extended cycle contraception is not for everyone.† The key is to keep taking pills daily unless you decide to induce a period.† If you start randomly skipping pills, you will bleed irregularly- and you might get pregnant.

If I donít get a monthly period, how will I know Iím not pregnant?

If you take your pill as prescribed, your chance of pregnancy is extremely low.† If you have symptoms of pregnancy, have missed pills, or need reassurance, take a home pregnancy test.

What if I donít get my period during the week Iím supposed to bleed?

The uterine linings of some women using extended cycle contraception become so thin that they donít bleed at all.† If you donít get a period, check a pregnancy test and if itís negative, donít be concerned. Just keep taking your birth control.

Tips for taking extended cycle contraception:

  • Always do this under the care of a physician.
  • If youíre using pills, take your pills at the same time every day.† If using the patch or ring, donít forget to replace it when itís time (every week with the patch and every 3 weeks with the ring).
  • If you miss one pill, take two pills the next day.
  • If you miss two or more pills, stop the pills for 5 days and expect a period.
  • If you have persistent breakthrough bleeding, stop the pill for 5 days and expect a period, then restart another 12-week cycle.
  • If your body routinely bleeds at a specific time (for example, you always have spotting on week 8), plan your extended cycle accordingly and schedule a week off pills at week 8.
  • If youíre confused or uncertain how to take your pills, make an appointment to discuss this with your OB/GYN

What Do I Think?

Well, I have mixed feelings. I always hated having periods. I know- itís not very Pink of me, but itís true. I was a ballerina, and then I would be scrubbed into these 8 hour surgeries with no breaks for tampon changes. So I was never particularly moon goddessy about my menstrual cycle.

Personally, I went 9 years using an extended cycle contraception regimen during my medical training and didnít have a single period until I decided to get pregnant, which happened very quickly once I quit. I never had any side effects and felt perfectly happy not to deal with it. Then I was pregnant- and after that, I was nursing, when I had a Mirena IUD inserted, which also suppressed menstruation.

So now Iíve had my IUD in for 4 years, and Iíve never once had a period. Which works for me. But it doesnít work for many of my patients. Iím a big believer in listening to your body, tuning into your intuition, listening to your yoni, and going with your gut. My job as a doctor is to educate you about your options, but ultimately, the choice must be yours.

Iím afraid I canít answer your personal medical questions here, but do share your thoughts on this topic! Is it cool to skip periods? Anti-woman? Is this progress- or too much technology? Do you long for the Red Tent days or did you crack open champagne when the Pill had itís 50th birthday recently? Do tellÖ

Lissa Rankin, MD

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Selma A.
Selma A.5 years ago

I was on the Depo Provera shot for about 10 years while I lived in Massachusetts and Illinois. After moving to Florida I was told by my ob/gyn there that I should not have been on it that long and that it could lead to osteoporosis. I had some tests done that showed some bone loss in my hips and spine, but nothing too severe at that point. I was in my 30's and premenopausal so I was not a candidate for any of the drugs to combat the disease. I was told to increase my calcium intake. I went vegan instead and never went back to any pills and am healthy now. Please, ladies, do research and ask your doctors lots of questions. Don't assume they know everything and take your health matters into your own hands. You are responsible for you.

Kathleen P.
Kathleen P.5 years ago

While I appreciate this article, women need to be more informed than what we are reading here. We need information beyond one doctor or author's biases, and we certainly know doctors have them. I highly recommend Women to Women to further you/me in becoming our own experts. They are a clinic in Vermont that have set up a website with extensive articles by women doctors and nurse practitioners who though trained in western medicine, are also trained in holistic alternative methods to mainstream medicine. It is the best of both worlds! The research is up to date, linking you to the direct research of scientists on these various issues.

Here is their site and an article discussing the pill, missing periods, and its effects... both positive and negative:

You can search any topic with their search engine that has to do with women's health... even post questions.

Again.. it is VITAL that we do not just take the advice of a well meaning sister or friend or doctor or one article. Take advantage of the body of knowledge the WISE WOMEN of the world have to offer you. For in the end, it is your body and her health that is at stake.

Sarah P.
Sarah P.5 years ago

I hate having my period. It's messy, inconvenient, and I get the absolute worst mood swings.
I've been skipping it ever since I found out I could, and only do a withdrawal week every 3 months to make sure I'm not pregnant.
I am so happy no to have to deal with it every month!

Alicia D.
Alicia D.5 years ago

I've been using this method for years now without any problems. My OB/GYN suggested skipping my period because I had really intense headaches and she suspected hormones were the cause. We switched from monophasic then to triphasic and back and forth. Depo helped the most with the headaches but I gained 15 pounds in 4 months and I'm a pretty small gal. Gaining that much weight in such a short time scared me so I switched back to a monophasic pill. Since that time, I've started eating a combination of a raw foods diet and lacto-ovo vegetarian diet - I avoid preservatives almost entirely and BAM! Headaches gone. Perhaps my healthy eating either helped to regulate my hormones or I had some sort of food allergy causing them. Either way, I'm thrilled they're gone. I still continue to skip my periods as often as I like... mostly if its going to be during a vacation or during a busy, stressful week. Otherwise, I try to have it every few months just to assess the situation. For the most part, my periods have gone from being almost unbearable to super light and most of the time, painless.

Mitzie W.
Mitzie W.5 years ago

Don't forget everyone has a different body and their bodies will react differently to each situation. So it's best to seek medical attention before assuming that is the same situation you are in.

Petra W.
Rose W.5 years ago

I;'m a bit unsure about whether or not this is a good idea. I am a teenage girl, so I have a lot of friends who are on the pill who skip the placebo week in order to never have a period. I don't think they do the 12-week cycle either, they just keep the hormones going. I don't think that it is a good idea to be messing with your bodies natural rhythms. Then again, my body is untrasensative so I'm probably more careful than other people need to be. In the end, I think you need to find what is right for you and your body, we just need to keep in mind that whenever we are forcing something unnatural in our bodies there could be consequences.

Helen P.
Helen P.5 years ago

Can anyone tell me why it's not ok to use triphasic pills to skip your period?


Stephanie D.
Stephanie D.5 years ago

As a teenager, I had fairly bad cramping and nausea during the first 2 or three days of my period. I got pregnant at 18 and since having my first child,I have absolutely no pain or problems associated with my period. Regular bleeding for 3 days, then 2 very light days, then done. I don't even know I've gotten it until I see blood. I guess the hormones produced during pregnancy balanced whatever was causing me pain during my period.
I have never been on birth control but have considered using a non-hormonal copper IUD. I am worried about side effects, though. I also worry about my daughter, who will be a teenager soon and will be deciding if she wants to use hormomal methods of birth control. I don't have a need for hormones to regulate my period, as it causes no discomfort and very little inconvenience. I think of it as a sort of monthly cleansing.

Diane L.
Diane L.5 years ago

A chiropractor can "fix" many things, but painful menstrual cycles aren't one of them. Birth control pills aren't a good recommendation, either........they're meant to prevent pregnancy, not control menstrual periods, although because they're hormones, they DO do just that. Many times, painful (and extremely heavy)menstrual periods (and I had them for years) are the result of fibroid tumors, which are more common than many realize, and there are now ways of removing them without surgery (hysterectomy). Nobody knows for sure what the long-term effects of the "extended cycle" hormones are, but think about it............there are now dozens of class-action lawsuits out there for some of the so-called "once a month" pills.

Bess m.
Bess moore5 years ago