Should My Pet Sleep in My Bed?


By Dr. Justine Lee, PetMD

Did you know that an estimated 14 to 62 percent of pet owners let their dogs or cats sleep on their beds? In my book†Itís a Dogís Life … but Itís Your Carpet, I explain why this is OKÖ

Donít worry ó youíre not the only one out there who lets that muddy-pawed monstrosity jump on your bed. Over thirty-one million people in the US do it, too. Thatís almost 56% of pet owners! So why do so many otherwise sane and clear-headed adults let their hound-dogs have their way? Well, while Cliffy, Fido, and Fluffy may shed, hog the covers, drool, dream, and snore while in bed, theyíll never leave your bedside or cheat on you! And Iíve got to say, dogs can be awfully snuggly, like a full body pillow with a built-in heater, which helps during long Minnesota winters. And Iím speaking from experience here.

Well, now weíre getting some grief on why we†shouldnít sleep with our pets. Emerging Infectious Diseases, in conjunction with the CDC, released an article called “Zoonoses in the Bedroom.” Zoonoses are diseases that animals can spread to people. In this article, they give a few scary examples: A man developed meningitis, which was possibly due to him allowing his dog to sleep under the covers with him and†lick his hip replacement wound. In another case, a young boy got plague after having his flea-infested cat sleep him.

While this article appropriately discussed the risks of sleeping with pets, itís important to keep in mind that some of these diseases are extremely rare Ö especially when you think about some of the 30+ million people who do so without any problems.

While I think itís important to acknowledge these zoonotic risks, your danger lies more with that 2-legged person next to you! Personally, I love sleeping with my pets. They add more warm to the bed, they bond to me while Iím sleeping, and I simply feel closer to them when they are snuggling with me. Iím aware of therare risks of sleeping with my pets. In fact, as we speak, my body is in the process of healing some 10-15 ringworm lesionsÖ (but more about this horrible fungus in a later blog). Point is, if in exchange for pet-loviní, it means that I have to smear tough-actiní Tinactin on my ringworm lesions every few decades, Iíll take the risk.

What I do love about the article is this: First, itís written by veterinarians who are experts in the field, and they admit that “the risk of getting sick from sleeping with, kissing, or being licked by pets is real, but the risk can be reduced by keeping pets healthy. Regular veterinary care is key to having a healthy pet and enjoying the benefits of pet ownership.” Agreed!

Bluntly: donít exchange bodily fluids with your pets! Letting them lick at your wounds? Letís use common sense here, folks!

Next page: situations where I donít recommend sleeping with your pet

  • Asthma or allergies: If you or your child have allergies or asthma, be smart. Keep your pet out of your room. As you spent 1/3 of your life in your bedroom sleeping, you want to keep a “safe” zone with minimal allergen spread (e.g., a dander-free bedroom!). In fact, the added benefit of a HEPA-filter in your bedroom may allow you to still have a pet despite your allergies.
  • Immunosuppression: If one of your family members is immunosuppressed due to geriatric age, underlying illness, metabolic disease, cancer, or certain drugs (e.g., steroids, chemotherapy drugs), be smart and keep your dog or cat out of the bedroom. While contact and appropriate sanitary conditions (i.e., washing your hands after contact, etc.) are appropriate, you are potentially more at risk in the bedroom.
  • New adoptees: I didnít heed my own advice, which is to always quarantine a new addition to your household for two weeks. Within two short days of adopting a kitten, I had rampant ringworm in my house. Unfortunately, all the humans and my 13-year-old cat succumbed to this fungus-among-us, and are all undergoing treatment. New pets should be quarantined in a separate room until they are deemed to be totally healthy!
  • Current illness: Sadly, while Iím healing from ringworm, my cat is slower to heal, and unfortunately needed to go on expensive oral antifungals ($20 a capsule!) and medicated lime sulfur dips every five days. Cats can carry ringworm for long periods of time, and may not always show signs of overt illness. So, my cat has been banned from the bedroom until heís completely cured (which typically takes at least two months!).

When in doubt, check with your medical doctor and your veterinarian about the potential zoonootic risks (that means diseases your pet can spread to you and vice versa).

Ever catch anything contagious from your dog or cat? Think the CDC is overhyping this all?

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Mary B.
Mary B.yesterday

We have found, the bigger the bed, the more our Siamese, Thai, takes up!

Sean S.
Sean S.9 months ago

I am surprised to hear a trainer say that it is alright to have a dog sleep on the bed with you. I would think that most trainers would advise to have restricted areas where dogs are not allowed. I like your point about them being a good companion though. I definitely feel less guilty about letting my dogs sleep on my bed with me now.

Raymen D.
Past Member about a year ago

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Manuela B.
Manuela B.about a year ago

whether it's good or bad, we don't get a say.....they win

Anita Dedat
Anita Dedat2 years ago

I love love love to be in bed with my two sweeties!

Tim C.
Tim C.2 years ago


Val M.
Val M.2 years ago

Thanks for sharing

Mary T.
Mary T.2 years ago

most nights, my grandchildren will sleep with me. the cats know when its bedtime

Carla van der Meer

I have several hounds, so having all of them in my double bed means I get the couch (it has happened). My 13 basset always sleeps with me. We are never apart and as her breed has an average 10 year life expectancy, each moment is a bonus and thus very precious. The fosters rotate and are fine with it. Most of them have a far better life here than they've ever had before, so that helps me sleep better, too.

Jennifer K.
Jennifer K.2 years ago

It helps me sleep ^_^