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Tantric Sex Tips — Love Kit Giveaway!

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Tantric Sex Tips — Love Kit Giveaway!

On this day of love, our resident loveologist Wendy Strgar would like to add a little love and spice to your life. In addition to this titillating excerpt on tantric sex from her new book, Love That Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy, Wendy is giving away a gift set from her company, Good Clean Love.

Along with a copy of the book, the kit includes a Lubricant Play Pack and Love Oil Sampler (which each include all three flavors) which will allow you to be ready for whatever mood you and your partner are in. The Edible Body Candy will sweeten any kissable spots you are looking to rediscover.

This set ensures that you will have the tools to take your intimacy to new levels. Check out this excerpt and leave a comment for your chance to win one of these sexy love kits!

Tantra for the Uninitiated
Simon and Emily were busy people. They lived in San Francisco, and in their early thirties were at exciting times in their careers: Their lives were a series of work trips, networking dinners and endless hours at their respective law offices. They had worked hard for their condo, with its blond hardwood floors and view of the marina.  They were both competitive, and the same forces that propelled them through the ranks of their law firms also tended to give them an active and aggressive sex life.  Neither had a problem reaching orgasm.

But when they had sex Emily (and Simon) each ran their own separate race, each with both eyes on their own separate orgasmic prize. More and more, their lives felt mechanical: the nice home, the hard work, the handsome couple attending events, the sex that was a robust, but almost robotic, release. Then Emily lost her job, and suddenly everything seemed a lot more fragile. The disconnection between them could no longer be covered up with constant activity—Emily needed Simon, and she didn’t feel like they saw eye to eye anymore. In fact, they barely looked at each other.

After reading an article about tantric sex, she suggested it. He thought it sounded interesting and kind of sexy, and so they tried it: no longer could they make love in their own separate worlds of pleasure. Their bodies, and more than that, had to work in unison, picking up subtle hints. They found themselves locking eyes, something they had never done before during sex. Suddenly running the race alone didn’t seem so appealing.

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Wendy Strgar

Wendy Strgar, founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, is a loveologist who writes and lectures on Making Love Sustainable, a green philosophy of relationships which teaches the importance of valuing the renewable resources of love, intimacy and family.  In her new book, Love that Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy,  she tackles the challenging issues of sustaining relationships and healthy intimacy with an authentic and disarming style and simple yet innovative adviceIt has been called "the essential guide for relationships."  The book is available on ebook.  Wendy has been married for 27 years to her husband, a psychiatrist, and lives with their four children ages 13- 22 in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.


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10:07PM PST on Jan 11, 2014

ty, for this post, care2

10:50AM PDT on Apr 8, 2013

nice article thanks

2:44PM PDT on Apr 7, 2013

yes, one has to be present in the moment .Focusing on their parntner and not just the act of having sex but the intimacy of pleasure with the one you care about

2:26PM PDT on Apr 7, 2013

thanks :-)

3:33PM PDT on Mar 18, 2013

Good guide to finding the right partner - someone you can keep your eyes open with!

10:34AM PDT on Sep 20, 2011

Thank you--this is beautiful!

4:02PM PDT on Jun 18, 2011

I'm in... we're BOTH in.

7:53AM PDT on Apr 26, 2011

Would love to try it :)

9:06PM PDT on Mar 25, 2011

If this giveaway is still going, I would love to win.

6:50PM PST on Feb 28, 2011

I would love to try this.

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