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Teaching Kids Animal Compassion: Choosing the Right Pet is Key

Teaching Kids Animal Compassion: Choosing the Right Pet is Key

by Dr. Tim Hunt, Contributor to Animals & Pets on Allthingshealing.com

Children can learn so many valuable lessons by caring for a pet. Having pets at a young age instills kids with a sense of confidence that they can take care of an animal and help it to live a thriving life.

More importantly I find pets can be great therapy for kids. Have you ever seen a kid talk to a pet and the animal responds by wagging its tail or purring? A pet gives a kid a way to share their feelings with another living creature that will never respond in a judgmental or bullying way. Animals are unbiased companions, just what many kids need.

Having pets also teaches children that animals are not expendable items. If children are involved in the daily care of animals, it can help to make them a more compassionate person later in life. Over the years I have been able to follow kids who first owned pets in elementary school as they grow up through high school, and I have seen them grow up to be compassionate young adults.

On the other hand, kids that don’t get the experience of having a pet early may become afraid of animals, especially if their parents don’t particularly care for animals. But even parents who aren’t crazy about pets or did not own them as kids can help change this trend.

People sometimes ask me what are some good pets for a young child to have, and why. Here are some pointers for choosing your child’s first pet:

When to get a pet – People often ask me what the best age is for children to have a pet. I believe between ages 4 and 8 is ideal, although older kids can also benefit. I got my first pets, mice and guinea pigs, when I was 8. I didn’t get my first dog until I was 20, but since then I have been making up for lost time. Today I own 40 outdoor dogs and two more who live indoors!

Start with easier pets – Many people don’t want to start with the responsibility of a dog or cat. For these folks, I recommend a nontraditional pet like a rat or a guinea pig. Rats are extremely cuddly, they don’t bite and they only live two years. Guinea pigs also do not bite, unlike hamsters and gerbils which can tend to be nippy.

Aim for “fail-safe” pets – Kids are so impressionable. The worst thing that can happen is a six-year-old kid gets bitten by a dog and then becomes scared of dogs for years to come. Choose pets that are easy to care for. Spend time with your child and the new pet, reading and learning together how to care for the animal.

Pick a pet that fits your family’s lifestyle – Look at the purpose the pet will serve in your family. Do you and your kids spend more time indoors or outside? Is your child very active or does he or she prefer reading or playing quietly. If a child has ADD or ADHD, I recommend starting with a calm dog to help give them an example of what calm can be. For a hyperactive adult, I recommend the opposite: a high-energy dog they can play with to form a bond, such as a Lab or Golden Retriever, German Short-haired Pointer or Border Collie.

Pets and exercise – With so many kids overweight, people wonder if a dog can help their child get more exercise. The answer is yes, and it has less to do with the kind of dog than the simple act of walking it. A particularly excitable dog is not necessary. It is more important that the child spend at least half an hour daily walking the dog. Get a kid away from the screens and electronics for that long and they will start to realize there is more to life.

Purebred or mixed breed? It is not necessary to pick a purebred dog for your first pet. Many mutts you can get from the pound or animal shelter make terrific pets. I strongly encourage people to adopt pound and shelter animals. Try to find out what breeds are in your dogs background to help you better understand your dog’s behavior. With purebred animals, it is especially important to do your research and make sure the pet fits your family’s lifestyle.

Cats for quiet kids – I find that cats are great pets for very introverted kids. Having a cat helps draw the child out in a non-threatening way. Once the child and cat get to know each other the cat will come and sit in the child’s lap. Cats also don’t require as much work or attention as dogs. I find that cats are particularly good for kids with physical or other disabilities that limit how much they can care for a pet.

No matter what kind of animal you choose for your first pet, remember that your attitude toward the animal can influence how your child treats animals for life. This is particularly important when an animal becomes sick or old. If a parent views the animal as disposable, the kid will too.

Whether your family chooses a hamster or a dog, be prepared to care for your pet in sickness and in health. If the animal gets sick at least seek treatment. Even if the outcome isn’t good and the animal passes away, children will remember “we tried.” And that will stay with them their whole life.

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1:56AM PST on Dec 3, 2013

rats are amazing pets parents just need to remember they still have to clean the cage&supervise w/young children.

7:25AM PST on Jan 18, 2013

If I have kids you can bet they will be raised with animals!!

4:44PM PDT on Jun 22, 2012

we have our giant outdoor dog (Sly) and our somewhat smaller 40 lb indoor dog (Isis). My 2 yr old loves them both. My mom has a sweet and calm natured Chihuahua (Precious) and my mans grandmother has a feist (Isabelle) So far he LOVES dogs and does well with them. I love all animals and hope he follows my example!

7:13PM PDT on May 7, 2012

Thanks Eden for the very onteresting article. Good points made.

2:49AM PDT on May 7, 2012

interesting article, thanks for sharing :)

6:59PM PDT on Apr 30, 2012

Interesting story. Thanks for sharing

3:47AM PDT on Apr 26, 2012

very good article

6:36AM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

An additional comment regarding children with special needs, like ADHD. Of course, when given the choice, a calm pet is desirable. We rescued a puppy from an abusive situation when our oldest son was 2. Our son was later dx with ADHD. The puppy, no doubt due to her abusive past and high strung nature, i.e. Border Collie, was quite a handful. Never having give up on an animal or child, I made it work. I felt committed to making this pup fit into our family, teaching both my son and the dog socialization. I realize that not everyone has this same level of commitment, as it takes a certain level of vigilance. But in the end, it taught my son, and the other kids responsibility & respect; and that wayward pup became a very smart dog, who not only herded kids and cats, but ended up 'mothering' kittens and hamsters. We would have missed out on all that had we given up on her. A calm dog would have been easier, but Bess has given us so much.

12:57AM PDT on Apr 25, 2012

From the day my parents emigrated to Australia and moved into our home, we've always had cats (we've had others too). My parents tell me that as a baby, a female cat who was part of our family at the time used to sit in front of the baby crib, watching me. She apparently didn't take too kindly to my dad getting too close to the baby crib one time. Her protectiveness of me as a baby has seen me be very protective of every cat we've had since and my love of cats is as strong as ever! I see them, as well as animals in general, as great teachers - God's angels!

1:31AM PDT on Apr 24, 2012

Since aged seven we had an animal in our home and today over fifty years later, my home wouldn't be the same without an animal especially a dog. Unconditional love is hard to pass up.

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