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The Breast Cancer Chronicles

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The Breast Cancer Chronicles

By Jacki Donaldson, Family Circle

Jacki’s Story

Documenting her treatment ups and downs through photos and blog posts gave Jacki Donaldson, a mom of two young boys in Gainesville, Florida, surprising strength and comfort. Here, a glimpse into her brave journey.

A New Reality

The older of my two sons, Joey (who was 3 at the time), took this photo just days after my diagnosis in November 2004. My intention was to capture my appearance before cancer took it away. I didn’t plan to look so somber. Yet it’s fitting. I was sad. The good news: I caught my cancer early, at stage 1, so it hadn’t spread. I wouldn’t lose my entire left breast—I needed only a lumpectomy to remove the pea-size tumor. The bad news: My growth contained too many HER2 proteins, meaning my cancer was aggressive (which is common in young women—I was 34). Doctors told me the post-surgery treatment would therefore be harsh. Indeed it was.

Hair

Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow

Eight weeks of chemotherapy sent toxic liquids through my blood, aimed at killing any cancer cells that may have escaped from the tumor before it was removed. I chose to have a port surgically implanted underneath my collarbone for the duration of the chemo, instead of getting repeatedly pricked with needles. A soft, slim catheter tube that was attached to the bottom of the port directed the drugs to my heart, which then pumped them throughout my body. After each of the four three-hour infusions, I felt nauseated and constipated. The drugs stole my energy, my taste buds, and, worst of all, my hair—what a way to start the new year. To minimize the trauma of pulling out larger and larger clumps, I split my locks into three ponytails and cut off each one. Then Joey and my husband, John, shaved the rest. Nothing made me as ill as seeing my bald head. Cancer was stripping me of my identity. And there was very little I could do about it.

Images: Jacki Donaldson

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11:07AM PDT on Jul 21, 2014

Thank you :)

12:56PM PST on Feb 2, 2014

Thank you for sharing.

3:24AM PST on Dec 31, 2013

Thanks

1:09AM PST on Dec 31, 2013

Thank you :)

9:44PM PDT on Sep 4, 2013

Thank you :)

1:31AM PST on Jan 14, 2012

Thanks for sharing.

3:19PM PST on Jan 9, 2012

Thanks for sharing.

5:38PM PST on Jan 8, 2012

thanks

12:55AM PST on Dec 22, 2011

Thanks for the read.........have a good friend who was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 weeks ago...another that fought and won over 10 years ago......a cousin that eventually died from it.

12:31PM PDT on Oct 23, 2011

I feel sorry for all the women who go through cancer treatment.
Cancer can be healed NATURALLY I am a living example.
Cancer treatment is big business for the Pharmaceutical companies and the medical profession.

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