http://www.care2.com/greenliving/what-are-you-really-craving.html
What Are You Really Craving?
I’ve been reading the writing of Marion Woodman, an author and Freudian analyst, who’s well known for her writings on addiction and eating disorders. Freudian dream analyst and forerunner in the intuitive eating field even before it was a field. In much of her work, she talks about how literal the body is in its signals; in a recent interview she says, “The longing for sweets is really a yearning for love or sweetness.”
If cravings really are that transparent, why are we so frequently at their mercy? I think it’s a simple answer: we just don’t take the time to listen to where the craving is coming from. What part of our Selves is doing the craving—the body or the mind? The fact is, we don’t really pay much attention to our Selves from the waist down. In our culture, the head is where the action’s at; it’s the part that’s sexy and loud and bright, and we’re completely at its mercy. Meanwhile, we drag the body around like a dog on a leash.
But the body is brilliant at expressing its needs and desires. It’s just not as shrill or strident as the mind, and we don’t get still and quiet often enough to hear the body speaking–or we do hear it, but allow the mind’s whims to subjugate the body’s needs. When we get sick, it’s often the body’s way of saying “Enough!” when it’s fed up with being ignored. And it’s an opportunity to check in with our Selves from the neck down, and notice what needs attention.
What does all of this have to do with eating? Everything. In our culture, we eat from the neck up. When we dine out, we choose grilled salmon, no sauce, dinner salad, dressing on the side, because the brain tells us this is a nutritious choice that will keep us slim and healthy. At the store, we load up our shopping carts with non-fat milk, low-calorie “butter” spread and diet soda, because our minds tell us those foods will also keep us slim. Sometimes, we load up our shopping carts with frozen dinners and boxed mac ‘n cheese, because our minds tell us we’re behind on deadlines and we don’t have time to cook.
Robyn
Melissa
Deepak
Eric
Dave
Dr. Brent
Isha
Susan
Delia
Michelle
Wendy
Megan
Hilary
Ann
Judi
Ronnie
Kelly
Lily
Terri
Betsy
Cait
Andrew
Jana
Annie B.
Veronica
81 comments
add your comment »Very interesting thanks for the info it helps a lot.
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
Very interesting, thanks!
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
Try getting the most nutrients out of foods...
PS.: feel free to share info and recipes at Nutritional Trashed Treasures.com Thx ;-)
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
Interesting article and so true!
I have one question though.
What is that ghastly looking stuff in the pan, for crying out loud?
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
im always in the mood for strawberries..yumm...and dark chocolate!
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
Really interesting. I find that when I allow myself one unhealthy meal (e.g. high in fat or salt) my body craves more fatty and salty foods for the rest of the day.
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
ive gt oreos for me today=)
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
Very interesting....today, I couldn't resist the chocolate, chocolate chip cookies from the grocery store today. They were on sale and I 'rewarded' myself, for getting out of the house and taking care of my needs. I rarely 'indulge' but, it felt very 'yummy'. I think I crave chocolate, because it creates an endorphin affect.
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
UGH. Lately I feel like I've been ADDICTED to sugar. If I don't have something sweet like chocolate or cake or ice cream for a day, my mind goes CRAZY. I can't sit still, and I can't concentrate on what I'm doing, because the desire for fat and sugar is so strong. But the problem is, I'm not even expending much calories. So when I end up eating those things, I simply gain a hefty amount of weight. But I can't rest without satisfying my craving, because if I tried to eat something else to substitute or quell the craving, I end up eating a lot because I never feel satisfied. HELP!!
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
I'd like to try this, but the problem is.. when I'm craving something, I really don't have the time to sit with it for 10 minutes to contemplate. It usually comes when I'm hungry at work and I don't want the healthy food I've packed for myself, so I feel like I don't have anything to eat because what I have is not what I want. For example, I have a beautiful container of fresh strawberries that I know my body would love to digest, but all I want is a warm chocolate chip cookie or big fat cinnamon bun, telling myself that fruit just doesn't have the same sugary satisfaction of a doughnut. So my mind is set on being angry at the strawberries, knowing I can't get that desired flavour from something good for me. Ugh!!
send green star
why is this inappropriate?
Facebook account: