Today was a great day. I felt synchrodestiny working all around me. No static at all.

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Interesting comments. I apprectiate the honesty in here. I was gifted a Chopra'a seminar; Synchrodystiny: "The Spontaneous Fullfillment of Desire" (For giving a woman a Chopra book 20 years ago)
Read the book if you too are enjoying this forum...What Karma huh!~
We often hear: tell someone who will listen, but not try to solve your problems. Maybe because, when we keep talking and thinking about it it only consumes us and makes it grow? I loved the advice to do what makes you happy! You will be happy; and you will attract others who are happy. Come on people, if you are not happy, move on! The world is full of good and wonderful people. I am not perfect....I get mad, I let it out. people around me know exactly how I am feeling to a fault. that is just me. If they come back, they are true friends, if not, that's ok, it is important to be who you really are. Be in control of the inner dialoge.
Deepak says: "Meditaion takes us beyond the internal dialogue to the quiet of a mind that is not imprisoned by the past or the future. Silence is the birthplace of happiness. Silence is where we get our bursts of inspiration, our true feelings of compassion and empathy, our sense of love."
Please, spend some time in the silence.
Nameste'

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Negative and hurt yeah me too.

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Ron,
You helped me by knowing a man is still out there who is thinking and feeling the right things. I fear one thing. You are 100% right. It has made me feel negative and hurt and it's not good for my health.

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Melody, I will venture out and tell you that a negative person can be a very happy person indeed, as this negativity makes him happy. I suppose it depends on your genes and ancestry. Mine is partly eastern European, and I feel very well in my negativity. Very often a good cry makes me feel good again. And my relatives and I cry at every opportunity. Then we are happy and have supported each other. We feel very awkward in the presence of unemotional beings; and none of us had cancer yet either. I think this is because we let off steam. I am a happy person but except doom and gloom around every corner. So my advise is: let your hubby be morose and work in the garden while he's at it.

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Melody, hope you don't mind if I chime in here on your question to the ladies. For the longest time I was very negative and it had a direct impact on my health and my relationship with my wife and children. All I know is that my negativity came from fear; fear of what had already happened; and fear of the unknown. It wasn't until I started looking into this as part my spiritual practice that I began to understand the EGO that had a control over me and how it fogged my perceptions. You mentioned that you both meditate; this is good since meditation allows you to see within and helps with peeling away the egos' that have an impact on your perceptions. Our main arguments in our house were around our finances; since I always took it as I wasn't doing enough; by either not providing enough income of by spending to much; I was always took it as a personal attack. What an ego I had. Here is a paragraph that may help: "One of the methods for working on our deepest fears is to consider that they have been produced by our past actions. Then, depending on whether the object of your fear is emotional suffering or physical pain, examine it well and ask yourself whether there is any remedy for it. If there is, why be afraid? If there is nothing you can do, then there is even less point in worrying about it. There is also another approach, which entails looking for the person (within) who is afraid. Look at the nature of yourself. Where is it?"

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You can handle loving your husband and your child. He may be jealous of the child as the attention has focused solely from him to the child. The boy will turn into an adolescent. Then prepare for the boy to cut you off as you are "mommie" (He struggles for separation.) This is why a career helps if possible but that's not always feasable. If you turn "negative" (which you won't) it won't matter. Human men act predictably. We all wish we were special and loved appropriately. We have strength & wisdom, THEY are always less mature. Find your strength, use it. It will be your best ally.

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Look, I've been the "family woman" too. Realize that this leopard will not change spots and use wisdom accordingly. Foflol. ;)
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Warning. You have a negativity drama queen on your hands. Every time he does this negativity drama, tell him. Say this, "Please stop being a negative drama queen." Remember, he is not as evolved as you. ;) I have something funny for you, let me find it. I'll write back later.

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Could I ask all you wonderful ladies to comment on my situation too?
I am married to a wonderful man that I love deeply. we have a 5-yr old son that is our chief joy in life (we are in our mid/late 40s).
My problem is, my dear husband is so incredibly negative at times that it stifles me... when I am feeling positive (almost always) or trying to find our way through difficult financial or emotional messes (more frequently these days than I care to admit) - he always focuses on the negative, and is not happy and won't let it go until it turns into a fight. As a positive person this really rubs me the wrong way!
He is the product of an EXTREMELY negative parent, and sadly, echoes that individual a bit too frequently for my taste, especially as he ages. I meditate daily (so does my hubby) and try my best to find a lesson in all this negative garbage he puts out, and not let it affect me, but it is very hard not to be affected, and to find that lesson. I believe in the law of attraction and i often wonder if his negative focus counteracts my positive focus so that we stay in the same old rut. HELP!!
Any suggestions on dealing with this issue will be taken in the spirit given. thank you so much for your time in reading this, and your help in solving it. Namaste!

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