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Who Are You?

Who Are You?

What do you identify yourself with? You might be surprised when you really start looking closely. The following questions will really get you thinking deeply about how you define yourself. Answering them requires sincere intent, self-honesty, and a good sense of humor!

Questions to ponder, here:

Are you your occupation? “I am a consultant, unemployed, a doctor, a lawyer, a cook, a soldier, an administrative assistant, a teacher a scientist, an accountant.”

Are you your hobbies? “I am a painter, a rock climber, a jogger, a gardener.”

Are you your body? “I am fat, skinny, tall, short, beautiful, ugly.”

Are you your emotions? “I am angry, sad, happy, disgusted, bored.”

Are you your thoughts?

Are you your causes? “I am pro-life, pro-choice, a Democrat, a Republican, a libertarian, a neo-Nazi, an equal rights activist.”

Are you your ethnicity? “I am African-American, Caucasian, Asian.”

Are you a parent? “I am a father, a mother, a good parent, a bad parent.”

Are you what you have? “I drive a Porsche, a BMW, a Chevy, a hybrid.” “I am rich, poor, moderately well off.”

Are you your “good” qualities? “I am helpful, compassionate, intelligent, honest, generous.”

Are you your “bad” qualities? “I am selfish, arrogant, insecure, jealous, mean.”

Are you your achievements? “I am a war hero, an employee of the year, a self-made multimillionaire.”

Are you your failure? “I am bankrupt, a high-school dropout, an abusive parent.”

These things have become a false self when we get our sense of identity and self-worth from them. At that point, they are no longer things we do, have, think, or feel, but rather the basis for how we value ourselves.

Do you think that if any of these things were to change that who you are would change too? Would your value as a human being change as well?

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Adapted from Present Moment Awareness, by Shannon Duncan (New World Library, 2003). Copyright (c) 2003 by Shannon Duncan. Reprinted by permission of New World Library.
Adapted from Present Moment Awareness, by Shannon Duncan (New World Library, 2003).

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4:53PM PST on Feb 1, 2012

Something to really think about. Thanks Annie.

2:32AM PST on Mar 2, 2011

i like to think that alue as a human will not change,no matter what!

12:18AM PST on Feb 3, 2011

Thanks for the article.

8:56PM PDT on Jun 13, 2010

This subject is very deep, if you really consider what it says. It is a question which was put to my Sociology class, early on in my college career. I had forgotten how difficult it had been to answer that question at the time. Sometimes, it is still difficult to answer. Who are we, REALLY? Very thought-provoking article. Thank you very much.

6:22AM PST on Jan 25, 2010

i'll try this for couple of days and give you my feedback... :)

7:36PM PDT on Aug 19, 2007

I am an energy which will never die.My body which is a mass according to EINSTIEN'S theory will die.Energy will be converted to another form when i die.

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