Why Clutter Happens

Like it or not, clutter happens. If you want to get rid of clutter, it helps to understand how and why clutter happens and, more importantly, why it happens to nice people like you. In the go-to uncluttering guide, Unclutter Your Home (Storey, 1999), author Donna Smallin discusses the phenomenon of clutter, here’s what she writes:

The root of clutter can be traced to a number of sources. One reason we have so much of it is because our lives have become increasingly complex over the past 20 or 30 years. More moms work outside their homes and growing numbers of men and women are working two jobs.

Remember when Sunday used to be a day of rest? You spent the whole day at home with your family or you all hopped into the station wagon and headed off to Grandma and Grandpa.

Now we’re all rushing off in different directions every day of the week. We can’t keep up with each other, let alone the clutter. And when we stop, we’re too darned tired to deal with it. Tomorrow, we say. Or the next day. Or someday, for sure.

Add to the lack of time the fact that we’ve acquired a hefty volume of possessions which has prompted us to move to a larger house. The size of the American home has nearly doubled over the last 50 years and the amount of possessions has increased along with it.

Many of us go shopping with nothing particular in mind. But we always come home with something. The more we earn, the more we spend–and the more we own. We just keep bringing stuff into our already cluttered homes, and creating more stress by digging ourselves deeper in debt.

So now we’ve got all this stuff, and some of it has been with us for so long we’ve become quite attached to it. Oh, once in a while we throw something out or give it away, but mostly we hold on to our stuff because we can’t bear to let it go–even things we may not need or use anymore.

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Nicole G.

9:47AM PDT on Aug 10, 2011

Think about how many trees could be saved if we could really and truly reduce the amount of paper clutter in our workplaces through email, PDFs and recycling!

send a green star

jane r.

8:31PM PDT on Aug 6, 2011

thanks

Shirley M.

4:41AM PDT on Jul 30, 2011

Nothing like moving around a lot to help unclutter! Now that I'm in a permanent residence, I'm finding it a bit harder. Then my sister decided to come and stay with me for a couple of months from September, and uncluttering went into top gear! My studio, which also serves as a bedroom for the occasional visitor, has to wrap itself around someone and nurture them for two whole months!

I'm glad she gave me plenty of notice, it took me about three months to get started! But I'm looking at my house with new eyes, and loving it all over again. Good luck to all you bower birds.

Thelma W.

12:35PM PDT on Jul 29, 2011

Thanks Camila, that's a good idea. I am making slow progress, but lost my husband in December and it is not easy. There is so much to do.

Camila K.

12:15PM PDT on Jul 29, 2011

Too much and too little both are difficult. Always, the middle way is best. Its truly a state of mind. If you are stuck, just begin anyway, and get rid of 7 things, put 7 things away, give 7 things away----keep moving.

Jane L.

4:41PM PDT on Jun 12, 2011

I don't think it's perfectionism for me, but I'm mostly all-or-nothing, so I just accumulate things on my desk or clothes on the floor until it's a lot and then clean it up all at once.

heather g.

12:32AM PDT on Jun 9, 2011

Wow, this statement hit home : "Another reason clutter collects is indecisiveness or deferred decision making. This is especially true of perfectionists. Think about it: If you’re a perfectionist, you want to do everything just right–or not at all."

I have a strong belief in the correct timing of a request or a major decision and don't think that's part of perfectionism - it certainly takes patience to wait for optimal timing.

A few people have stated how they value older possessions, perhaps even those belonging to deceased parents. I look at a book-mark my Mom doodled on with her trademark drawings - and I look at it with love each time I hold it. In Canada I have come across many who don't value anything that belonged to grandparents, parents - they feel no connection to the person through the item and I find that a decidedly strange attitude.

Bruce H.

11:05AM PDT on Jun 5, 2011

Something to be done with the kindergarten artwork is to scan it in to the computer. This way it can be enjoyed without having it still on the refrigerator when they graduate.