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Wisdom from Brian Biro

Wisdom from Brian Biro

The ultimate secret to balance, connection, and peace of mind is also the most important key to building trust instantly with everyone you touch. The secret centers around the simple, yet immeasurably profound principle of being fully present. Perhaps the most powerful way to understand this principle of being present is to look clearly at what it is not.

Several years ago when I was the vice-president of a large training company, I became painfully aware of what it means to not be present. I had fallen into the habit of reaching the office by 5:00 a.m. and not returning home until well after 6:00 in the evening. I had to be at the office first and to put more hours in than anyone else. After all, I was driving myself for my family, wasn’t I?

When I trudged wearily through the door each night, my daughter Kelsey ran to me the instant I appeared in the house. She threw her arms around me and told me how much she loved and missed me as she looked into my eyes with pure joy. She then began to tell me all about the wonderful things that happened to her all day-special, magical things that only happen when you are five years old.

And, I missed it. I didn’t hear a word she said. You see, when I walked in that door, my body showed up. But, my mind, my heart, and my spirit were still back at the office. The most important people in my life were right there, at home, waiting for me and I never really saw them or heard them when they most needed me because I was not present….Continue reading on

Known as America’s Breakthrough Coach, Brian is a bestselling author and motivational speaker.

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4:05AM PDT on May 12, 2013


5:28PM PDT on May 16, 2012

Thank you for sharing.

4:33PM PST on Jan 26, 2012

thank you noted

12:21PM PDT on Sep 5, 2011

Too true

5:42PM PDT on Aug 31, 2011

Oh dear, his daughter was only five once. I can't imagine doing that to family - once one is safely home and can relax after the office. One should get into a habit of hugging and if the partner's not present to give them a reminder - like a kiss !

10:04AM PDT on Aug 30, 2011

Thanks for the reminder.

2:36AM PDT on Aug 30, 2011


2:25AM PDT on Aug 30, 2011

noted, thanks.

1:17AM PDT on Aug 30, 2011



7:51PM PDT on Aug 29, 2011

Very true and very good advice. It is so easy to forget and loose yourself. I did that today. I took a walk on a trail at a beautiful park so I could do just that. It took at least a half hour into the walk before I did so.My brain just wanted to keep thinking about future events. I sat down and meditated. Just breathed and let go. After that, I was completely in the present, enjoying every tree, every plant and flower, the butterflies, the birds and cicadas singing, the wind through the trees. Much better.

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You people need to seriously lighten up!


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