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Waitress Who Posted No-Tip Receipt From "Pastor" Customer Fired From Job

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"I originally posted the note as a lighthearted joke," says Chelsea, who was dismissed from her job at Applebee's on Wednesday, as the story began to spread across the Internet.

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Angelika R (143)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 1:59 pm
Earlier this week, we posted a story about a restaurant customer who not only chose to deny the waitress a tip, but also wrote “I Give God 10% Why do you Get 18?” on the receipt. Now we’ve learned that the server who posted the receipt online has been fired.

“I originally posted the note as a lighthearted joke,” says Chelsea, who was dismissed from her job at Applebee’s on Wednesday, as the story began to spread across the Internet. “I thought the note was insulting, but it was also comical. I posted it to Reddit because I thought other users would find it entertaining.”

Chelsea tells Consumerist that the receipt was actually not even for her table. Rather, the server on the receiving end of the note showed it to Chelsea, who snapped a photo of it later that night.

As posted originally on Reddit’s Atheist page, the image contained the customer’s full signature. Chelsea says she didn’t think to edit that out because she had assumed the name was illegible.

But the Internet is a remarkably curious place, so sleuths began trying to identify the self-described “pastor” on the receipt.

“All throughout the comment thread on the Reddit post, I withheld any identifying information,” Chelsea explains, adding that she provided an inaccurate physical description of the customer just to throw people off.

She eventually replaced the image with a version that did not contain the signature, but by that point, people were posting their guesses as to the customer’s identity.

“I had already started receiving messages containing Facebook profile links and blogs and websites, asking me to confirm the identity of the customer,” she says. “I refused to confirm any of them, and all of them were incorrect. I worked with the website moderators to remove any personal information. I wanted to protect the identity of both my fellow server and the customer. I had no intention of starting a witch hunt or hurting anyone — I just wanted to share a picture I found interesting.”

Her post immediately became popular on Reddit, and then multiple national news sources began picking up Consumerist’s write-up of the story.

Some time on Wednesday, Chelsea says the customer who had left the receipt contacted her Applebee’s location, demanding that everyone be fired, from the servers involved to the managers.

According to Chelsea, until the receipt story got out there, her time at Applebee’s had been without incident.

“I had been well-liked and respected,” she explains. “My sales were high, my managers had no problems with me, and I was even hoping to move up to management sometime this year.

“When I posted this, I didn’t represent Applebee’s in a bad light,” she continues. “In fact, I didn’t represent them at all. I did my best to protect the identity of all parties involved. I didn’t break any specific guidelines in the company handbook — I checked.

“But because this person got embarrassed that their selfishness was made public, Applebee’s has made it clear that they would rather lose a dedicated employee than lose an angry customer. That’s a policy I can’t understand.”

For someone who makes their living off of tips, it seems like the customer’s note was salt in the wound for Chelsea.

“We make $3.50 an hour. Most of my paychecks are less than pocket change because I have to pay taxes on the tips I make,” she explains. “After sharing my tips with hosts, bussers, and bartenders, I make less than $9/hr on average, before taxes.

In her job, Chelsea says she skipped bathroom breaks when things got busy, went hungry when she had to work several tables at a time, would work until 1:30 a.m. and then come back in at 10:30 a.m.

“I am expected to portray a canned personality that has been found to be least offensive to the greatest amount of people,” she tells Consumerist. “I come home exhausted, sore, burnt, dirty, and blistered on a good day. And after all that, I can be fired for ‘embarrassing’ someone who directly insults their server on religious grounds.”

Chelsea agrees with those who argue in favor of a payment system that doesn’t make restaurant servers reliant on tips.

“But the system being flawed is not an excuse for not paying for services rendered,” she adds. “I posted a picture to make people laugh — but now I want to make a serious point. Things like this happen to servers all the time. I’ve had worse tips just in the last month. People seem to think that the easiest way to save money on a night out is to skip the tip. But when you don’t tip a good server, that means that server might move on to a better job. And a worse server might take their place. When you tip a good server well, you are ensuring good service.”

As for the customer’s claim that they “give God 10%,” Chelsea says she’s “utterly baffled” at why someone would try to make a connection between tithing to one’s church and tipping at a restaurant.

“I’ve been stiffed on tips before,” she says, “but this is the first time I’ve seen the Big Man has been used as reasoning.”

“I can understand why someone could be upset with an automatic gratuity,” she admits. The customer’s bill had included an automatic tip of 18% because, according to Chelsea, it had been part of a table of 20. “It’s a plainly stated Applebee’s policy, and it is company policy for parties over eight. I cannot control the auto-gratuity at all; it’s done by the computer that the orders are put into, and the gratuity is not determined by the bill, but by the size of the party.”

Chelsea says that the customer told her manager that their reputation had been ruined by having the receipt posted on Reddit.

“If this person wrote the note, obviously they wanted it seen by someone,” she points out. “It’s strange to me that now that the audience is wider than just the server, the person is now ashamed.”

Even though she’s now without a job, Chelsea claims she has no agenda, nor does she have any interest in exposing the customer’s identity to the public.

“I was just trying to make a joke, but I came home today unemployed.”

So, for now it’s back to the job market to look for a new gig. Chelsea says she’s been waiting tables to save money so she could pay for college.

“In the meantime, hopefully I can find a job that pays more than $3.50/hr,” she tells Consumerist, “Or where people are willing to tip well.”

We are reaching out to Applebee’s for comment and will update if we receive a reply.

UPDATE: The folks at The Smoking Gun have interviewed the pastor who left the receipt.

“My heart is really broken,” she tells the site. “I’ve brought embarrassment to my church and ministry.”

The pastor claims that though she scratched out the automatic gratuity on the bill, she left a $6 cash tip at the table. She also alleges that the restaurant charged her the 18% tip anyway.

In response, Chelsea tells Consumerist:

“Whether or not she left a tip, the note was still offensive. It wasn’t my table, it wasn’t my tip. I’m not sure who ended up with what money at the end of the night. But you can’t really argue with what’s plainly written, and what was written was insulting. Insulted or not, I’ve lost my job over this mess, and that’s what I’m concerned with now. The six dollars one way or another wouldn’t really affect that situation.”

UPDATE PART TWO: Applebee’s provided the following statement on the matter —

Our Guests’ personal information – including their meal check – is private, and neither Applebee’s nor its franchisees have a right to share this information publicly. We value our Guests’ trust above all else. Our franchisee has apologized to the Guest and has taken disciplinary action with the Team Member for violating their Guest’s right to privacy. This individual is no longer employed by the franchisee.


Angelika R (143)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 2:00 pm
Video at visit site

Sue Matheson (79)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 2:02 pm
this may be a blessing in disguise. I hope she gets herself a better job and goes on to a good work environment.

Julie E (405)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 2:06 pm
Hahaha! I am glad this was posted but not with the customers name on it.

Kit B (276)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 4:03 pm

Why does god need any money? The waiters (male and female) may be paying for a family or school or just trying to earn a living. This jerk should be exposed and I would say, that I will not go to Applebee's again, but I have been boycotting them for some time any way. Go out to eat, and be prepared to offer up 20% of the ticket to person that took your order, brought the food, extra drinks, made sure you were satisfied or stay home and cook for yourself.

Angelika R (143)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 4:10 pm
Truely good advice Kit! BTW that pastor was a woman if I'm not mistaken...

Pat B (356)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 4:47 pm
I hope that this young lady gets a good paying job somewhere.!! I wish her well after all this.!

Angelika R (143)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 5:04 pm
You cannot currently send a star to Gran because you have done so within the last week.

Past Member (0)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 5:34 pm
As the old saying goes, you can tell A LOT about a person by the way they treat their server in a restaurant. I'm really glad this "Pastor" is not from my community. BTW, I'd happily hire this server away from Applebees. Get in touch with me through Care2!

Angelika R (143)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 5:49 pm
My guess is she won't see this wonderful offer but thank you Shelli for showing compassion and a BIG heart!

Animae C (515)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 6:56 pm

Totally agree with what Kit said.

jo M. (3)
Saturday February 2, 2013, 11:32 pm
I had one of the best sandwiches ever at Applebees last year, wouldn't mind having another someday. Thinking a reprimand and apology by the waitress would have been sufficient. Enjoyed the note, there should be no such thing as an automatic tip, it's up to the customer to decide what and whether to tip someone.

Bianca D (87)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 12:36 am
A person who is nice to you, but not nice to their server is not a nice person. That pastor is the one who should have lost her job. God needs money? Tosh.

Giana P (398)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 12:59 am
Stupid remark! really!

Past Member (0)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 2:05 am
This story is an odd one. Actually this Pastor sounds like a complete idiot. Give this women a job,a good one.

aj E (164)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 9:35 am
if the service sucked, they should have noted that. but if they're just complaining about the auto-tip, they shouldn't come in with a huge party. unfortunately food service people donn't even make minimum wage, so the tip is part of their income that is bigger than people realize.

Patrick Donovan (344)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 12:39 pm
Having worked in the restaurant and other service industries (before finishing college), I over tip constantly. It's a way to let people know that you appreciate their willingness to do a thankless job. Lest I be accused of being naive, I will only tip 15% if the service is bad. Also, if the food is not to my liking, I don't punish the server, I speak to the manager. Like all parts of life, kindness, reason, and generosity go a long way to making life easier for one's self and for others.

OR, as Camus put it:

"Too many have dispensed with generosity in order to practice charity."

(yes, I do have quotes for things I feel strong about)

Angelika R (143)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 1:23 pm
wish I had another star for Patrick! Thx for your wonderful comment! I usually do pretty much like him when eating out(which is rare lately but very frequently before)

Sheryl G (363)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 3:31 pm
My daughter was working for one of these chain places, she was making $4.68 an hour. The state agency has indicated the minimum wage rate in Florida will increase to $7.79 per hour for non-tipped employees and to $4.77 for tipped employees beginning 2013, had she stayed where she was that would of been an hourly increase of a whole 9 cents per hour.

She depended very much on tips as trying to find a place to live, pay for utilities, day care expenses, can not be done on minimum wage much less than below it, is why she remains living with me. Due to the recession, many will find a few dollars to give a treat to themselves by eating out at the less expensive restaraunts, but skip on the tip or short exchange it. Many times she was left religious pamphlets of one type or another, a car air freshener, coupons for discounts off of things, but none of that pays the bills for her.

One large party had her extremely busy catering to them all. Was a birthday party and lots of really nice gifts were presented to the person having the party, yet when they left they didn't even tip her. Was her service terrible? Well a man sitting near the party of people was watching my daughter and when they left he said, "they didn't even tip you did they." She didn't want to say anything, but he said, "look I use to own a business and I am very observant in this sort of thing. She said, no they didn't tip. He said, you did a good job, I watched you, throughout the entire time.

He then went and handed her the tip money of what they should of left to her as well as tipping for his own meal. He in actuality tipped more to my daughter as he had tipped for the entire party, whereas he ate alone at his own table. That was a wonderful thing that the man did, but one isn't normally bailed out that way.

This person that feels they shouldn't tip but 10% because God doesn't get more needs to spend a month or two in being a server then let us see how she feels about it afterwards.

Angelika R (143)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 4:03 pm
Blessings to that generous man who awarded Fawn! I posted this story with her on my mind actually, being fully aware of her miserable situation there at the time.Thanks Sheryl!

Sheryl G (363)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 4:10 pm

JL A (281)
Sunday February 3, 2013, 9:43 pm
Why did a pastor feel free to disrespect a hard working person in the service industry instead of displaying gratitude and caring compassion?
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