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Bedouin Arab Living in Israel Is Thinking About Wife Number Nine


Offbeat  (tags: mulitple wives, children, Israel, Bedouin, Arab, overpopulation, poverty )

RC
- 796 days ago - ap.google.com
GOOD GODDESS - the man is 58 years old and already has eight wives and SIXTY-SEVEN CHILDREN. No wonder the Bedouin community is poor!
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RC deWinter (418)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 3:52 pm
And I thought those crackpots - the Duggars of Tontitown, Arkansas - were horrendous!
 

Past Member (0)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 4:22 pm
Cate........You got that right!!!!!!!
You are probably very familiar with my stance on over population.........These people who spit out babies like rats, rabbits & roaches think Mother Earth is as big as the universe.............Haven't we all heard the old line......
"A man's brain is at the end of his pencil, and God only knows where the brain is of these women.

The Duggars live here and could easily afford birth control.......This nitwit in Isreal is just short of brains period. I wonder how he supports all these kids & wives??????????????????????

There was a guy somewhere in Africa who felt awful (finally) for having 98 children, or was it 69????? Lord, does it matter at all past 3?????????????????????

And, how many animals give birth to a litter this big compared to these slobs???????????

Sheesshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Plant life.........Plant seeds........Plant trees.............
 

Yvonne White (139)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 4:29 pm
Obviously he's never met Lorraine Bobbit!;)
 

Past Member (0)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 4:40 pm
Well dam.......................Let's get em' together!! Shhhhhhhh, don't tell him a thing about her!!!!!!!

Surprise......Surprise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! roflmboooooooooooooooooooooo!

Plant life........For life..........Plant trees..........................
 

Tsandi Crew (92)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 5:25 pm
Don't they have anything better to do with their lives than breed? He needs a visit to the vet!
 

Heather L. (15)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 5:34 pm
That's why the planet is starting to run out of resources.........idiots, like this one, havin too many kids.
 

Gail Costic (496)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 5:36 pm
Their arrogance and self-serving behavior is disgusting.
 

Heidi W. (7)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 7:00 pm
Wow. People... I too felt a chill when I read that article. It is unfamiliar to my lifestyle and makes me uncomfortable. I wholeheartedly agree that literacy and education is of paramount importance amongst women throughout the world. Without those things, there is little left to do but marry and become a mother for how else can she take care of herself? But I did expect a more candied response from my Care2 community. Just because we see things from a different light, doesn't make these people "bad, arrogant or stupid slobs". It offends me SO much that you would say that about our fellow brothers and sisters. It wasn't all that long ago that women in our own country faced a similar fate. This is merely a difference in culture... though the article states that the man receives $1700 a month in state aid (a mere $22 per person I might add), I am positive that his children (grown or otherwise) contribute to the well being of the entire family. How many of US can say that about our families? Don't get me wrong, I do believe that it may be an uncanny existence for the people... uneducated and un-wealthy... not to mention the overpopulation issue. But we will get NO WHERE (except perhaps where we already are) by being offensive about another's beliefs.... You can do better Care2.
 

Carolyn T. (235)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 7:26 pm
Thank you, Heidi, for the salient points of your post. Noted, Cate. Just a cultural way of looking at the world is an example of why we cannot expect to have more than an uneasy coexistance. Neither of our cultures can begin to understand the other. Here, we believe in living together without marriage. Some of us marry, reproduce, divorce, again and again. This man is just staying married to all of his wives. I mean, there is only so much community property to divide and how do you pay child support for that many children? Of course, I am saying these last sentences tongue-in-cheek. We have to understand that repopulating their numbers is not a matter they take lightly--it is a mission possible.
 

Blacktiger P. (229)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 9:03 pm
Noted, and my thoughts, I can see all the merits of each opinion, now mine. In all the countries that have mutiple wives and many children, the reasoning is to have children to care for them in their declining years.
As in China and such, the families would rather have sons to support them, as girls are an expense that is beyond them, marriage doweries etc. So with that said, how do we match up now.
 

Past Member (0)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 9:53 pm
Heidi......I still think of these people as stated before. Whatever monies this over-populating nitwit get more than likely comes from excess in government funding. Can't prove it but some of that is our money since the U.S. hands money to Isreal left and right.............Whether true or not it still is extremely selfish to keep adding on children with how many wives and more added probably until his pencil's battery goes dead.
And wouldn't the Mormons be considered a culture if it is a matter of cultural beliefs alone?????????

In this day and age of trying to attain ZERO POPULATION it is a sin in my opinion!!!!!!!!!

Plant life for life..........Plant trees.............................
 

Orlin Larsen (80)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 10:25 pm
My one and only comment is to those with the most sensible comment Heidi, Carolyn, and Lamargo. Perhaps sensible is not the only word for description. Nonpredjustice, compassion, and understanding might be just three more in the long line of respect, for a culture we know nothing about, except that it is very distant from our own. If these cultures do not rely on hate, or cruelity to exist, what business is it of mine.
 

serge vrabec (254)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 10:46 pm
Zip it up!!!!!! Thx Cate
 

Denice G. (45)
Wednesday October 17, 2007, 10:54 pm
Noted. All those kids, that is just wrong.
 

Past Member (0)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 1:24 am
I DON'T CARE HOW MANY KIDS OR WIVES HE HAS IF HE CAN SUPPORT THEM. IT IS NOT MY HABIT OF INTERFERING WITH PEOPLES BELEIF SYSTEMS OR HOW THEY SIT UP HOUSE. WHAT I LIKED WAS THE FACT THAT THIS MAN HAS MANAGED TO SHOW THAT MAN(ARAB) CAN GET ALONG IN THE MIDEAST.ns best with the jewish israelites. THAT SHOULD BE SEEN AS HOPE AND MORE PEOPLE WILL SURVIVE LIVING AMOUNG jJEWISH SETELERS,MAYBE MORE WILL TRY. CHRIS CPR53
 

Past Member (0)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 1:32 am
THIS IS TO BETTE. MY FRIEND YOU SAID A MANS BRAIN WAS AT THE HEAD OF HIS PENCIL WHICH WE USE AS A JOKE ANS ALSO SERIOUS. BETTE I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT DOESN'T APPLY TO ALL MEN AND WE ALL KNOW THAT,I AM IN MY 50'SAND CAN ASSURE YOU MINE ISNT !!! i FEEL YOU COULD HAVE SAID THAT IN A NICER WAY AND WE HAVE KNOW EACH OTHER A LONG TIME . COME ON NOW THERE IS MORE TO IT THAN JUST A SEX DRIVE ALSO CUSTOM , RELIGION , AND THE PERSONS ETHNIC TEACHINGS.PEACE CHRIS CPR63
 

Past Member (0)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 1:37 am
bUT i WILL SAY ITS TIME AND BEEN TIME FOR THIS MUSLIM TO SLOW DOWN HE HAS ENOUGH PRODIGY RIGHT? RIGHT? CHRIS
 

Past Member (0)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 3:33 am
Christian.........I assure you I do not think of all men in this way. But considering having a harem of women and an army of children smacks of shear ignorance, stupidity, arrogance in light of our world situation. It is as if this man must prove his manhood way beyond what I consider normal or even rational custom or no custom.

And all of the story was not in the report as I read another on MSN which has many more details than this one does..............This man, the Duggars and anyone else are slobs in this area for we will pay in some way for their sexual over indulgence!!!!!!!!!

~~PLANT LIFE........PLANT TREES..........
 

Katie S. (62)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 3:34 am
"Yediot said he also receives about $1,700 (euro1,200) in government handouts each month."
Some people in the UK are similar - they have lots of children and just expect the government to pay for them. It's disturbing that when me and my partner were nearly homeless I was told by government employees to get pregnant and then I'd get a house from the local council!!
 

Margaret B. (164)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 5:14 am
He defintely needs a new hobby! Tis a shame this is a world wide problem!
 

Charles C. (183)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 6:11 am
Sounds like it is time for him to keep the camel in the stable!!! If he was footing the bill to support them all, then I guess I could say nothing, but having others pay for them is another story! And 8 wives, going on 9.....Who is this guy, the poster boy for Viagra????
Noted, thanks Cate
 

Past Member (0)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 6:24 am
People like this man are laughing their butts off at us who don't break the rule of common sense. Evidently he cares nothing about how these children will fare later on in life whether the world falls into crisis or not due to Global Warming..........
He is enjoying every moment in the dark and that is all that matters to him and them fallowing in his footsteps....
I'm the oldest of eleven and I made a vow as a child never would I spit out kids like a machine gun for no man, culture or no culture.

There are SIX BILLION people on this earth and half of them are children and half of that are starving and roaming any given city street begging for food, shelter, cloths and money..........

The sheer stupidity of it all turns me inside out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLANT LIFE.....................PLANT TREES.........................
 

Joycey B. (699)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 8:49 am
Noted. Thanks Cate.
 

Mary H. (39)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 11:04 am
Noted -- I stand with Heidi
 

Elle J. (236)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 3:24 pm
I know people that can't handle one wife and this guy is looking at number 9? sheeeesh. I have heard people say "Who's your daddy"? But these poor kids are probably wondering, "who's my mommy? To each his own.
 

Past Member (0)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 4:09 pm
Elle........Your comment cracked me up!!

Plant seed, a tree, and make a forest...............For the animals...........................
 

Heidi W. (7)
Thursday October 18, 2007, 7:15 pm
Bette, I can appreciate your opinion for being your opinion and gladly accept and appreciate that you share it. You need to know that I am in complete agreement on the over population issue. It's not even an issue with me; it's fact. It is imperative that we take care to reduce the world’s population. I'm in favor of banning antibiotics, myself... along with the use of birth control and common sense, but that is another topic all together.

What I do know is this. If you and I were both invited to speak to this man, he would be more inclined to interact with the one who did not judge or berate him for being an "arrogant slob". Don't you agree? It is not my intention to preach to people about what I believe in, but to network with those who already agree. If we are going to bring change to the world, we need to get over the name calling and condemnation. It's rude, uncouth, childish and extremely frustrating for me to have to keep going over. Especially with those who I feel have intelligent insight and ideas when it comes to solving the problem; as I feel of you.

That said... and as I stated previously, I feel that the best way to make change is to provide education, not just for the girls/women, but for people in all situations. I'm not entirely positive what the statistics say about literacy in Bedouin communities but I'm sure it is not high. With even that small but essential tool, people are thus given the opportunity for making change of their own. If my tax dollars are going to Israel to provide assistance (including education), I have no complaints because it is the very least I can do. So, until I am positive that these people have been given EVERY resource available and still make the choice to continue over populating, I can not label them anything except a fellow being. And IF this case is one of an arrogant, self-indulgent man who cares not for anything but himself, I have better things to do than post hate-filled/anger-induced messages about it. That was my intention in my original post… let’s concentrate on fixing the problem, not pointing it out.
 

Past Member (0)
Friday October 19, 2007, 1:45 pm
If the problem is not pointed out in any way defineable then we as intelligent thinking humans can not possibly help those who in their ignorance & selfishness will not be helped at all.
This man has gone beyond the damage point in his actions......And his selfish cloning of his own being is enough to make anyone mad...........I recall I'm human with common sense, this man has none that I can perceive.

The only thing which can be done now is to teach somehow someway his children not to mimic their fathers reproductive ways and tell them why and how it damages people, places far away from them.

The name calling I agree serves no purpose other than to espress the rage and audacity of what this man and thousand like him are doing all over the world!
You and I and Mother Earth are carrying the burden of these people who think self pro-creation is a living mirror of themselves to gloat over and pride of their hidden behavior that they know no one can stop.

PLANT LIFE FOR LIFE...........PLANT TREES............
 

Suzybell H. (221)
Friday October 19, 2007, 10:20 pm
General Relief was run that way in this country and then it changed it was not so drastic ,but I can remember
families having more kids to get more money. I was kind of young at the time and then I think good old Ronnie
cut out sum benefits. I know a lot of women had to go to school or training of some kind. This man he is a pig!
 

Merry Loscalzo-Stumpf (75)
Saturday November 10, 2007, 12:25 pm
Sorry, but ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
 
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