DC Comics Bans Gay Marriage for Batwoman

There aren’t a lot of gay characters out there. Oh sure, they are becoming more common and accepted, but pop culture has been dominated by straight people for a very long time. That’s why it’s so awesome that one of the most beloved DC comic book characters, Batwoman, is a lesbian. A lesbian in a long-term relationship, at that!

Batwoman, aka Kate Kane, is actually engaged to her partner, Gotham City detective Maggie Sawyer. Batwoman proposed to and kissed Sawyer in panel. However, it looks like a marriage won’t be taking place anytime soon. DC has forbidden a marriage to result from this engagement, which has caused J.H. Williams III and W. Haden Blackman, Batwoman’s creative team, to quit.

As io9 reported:

That’s right, while Batwoman has proposed to Maggie twice — twice on panel — DC not only refused to let the wedding be depicted on panel, but refused to let them be married at all. “[We] were told emphatically no marriage can result,” said Williams on Twitter. He later added it was “was never put to us as being anti-gay marriage.” Although how refusing to let people marry — even fictional characters — is not anti-gay marriage is beyond me.

The gay and lesbian group GeeksOUT are certainly taking it as an affront. Just because the editorial decision wasn’t billed as anti-same sex marriage doesn’t really make it OK:

So, that makes us all feel better, right? It’s not as though DC comics has a long and embarrassing history fumbling LGBTQ issues (Teen Titans’ Bunker, Earth-2′s gay-for-no-reason Alan Scott, trying to serve Superman fans a big steaming pile of Orson Scott Card) *OR* of mishandling the impressive roster of talent that keeps loyal readers coming back despite bone-headed world-altering relaunches and repetitive characters. Or, do they?

Oof. Good point. However, I don’t think it’s out of the realm of possibility that DC is just a little anti-marriage across the board, gay or straight. In an excellent analysis from The Mary Sue, Susana Polo points out that few if any long-term relationships were revived in the two year old reboot of the DC universe.

However, it is all about context. Polo goes on to argue that the history of LGBT comic book characters is so sketchy and fraught with death and destruction that pretending that these same-sex relationships, although fictional, are the same as the different-sex relationships is hamfisted:

However, an action doesn’t have to be intentionally insensitive to be insensitive, and I would argue that’s what has happened here. Gay characters in most other mediums, have long, long operated under widespread stereotypical themes that denied them long lasting presences in stories, much less long lasting relationships. There’s a trope named after it, Kill Your Gays, and it’s a deadly drinking game to start listing gay characters who never dated or who couldn’t be with a willing partner because they lived in a place in which that would not have been acceptable, who died prematurely due to events that were coded “gay” (i.e., AIDS or violent hate crimes), or whose partners died in the sorts of deaths that are still very closely associated with gay characters. Now, we all know that inside of comics, almost nobody gets a stable relationship, but given the context of the kinds of stories that are told about gay characters, and that have been told about gay characters for years, it is insensitive to simply view “postponing, denying or destroying a marriage between gay characters” to have precisely the same narrative weight as “postponing, denying or destroying a marriage between straight characters.” And that’s without even considering the real life struggle of real people to have their right to marry recognized by the society around them.

Maybe, after the singularity and our robot overloards have managed to institute real social equality and after we’ve had that social equality for a while, this type of thing would be okay. We’re making progress, but right now that’s not the world we live in.

It’s entirely possible that DC just didn’t realize how this decision would resonate, but that’s not an excuse. We live in a very quick and connected world. It’s relatively easy to educate yourself on social issues that you may not be personally acquainted with. It’s not necessarily up to an oppressed group to force their voices into your ear. You need to care enough to learn. You need to at least make a good faith effort to understand different perspectives and how those perspectives might color seemingly neutral or banal decisions. At the very least, DC failed to do that, and that’s what’s so disappointing.

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Eternal Gardener
Eternal G4 years ago


Franck Rio
Past Member 4 years ago


GGma Sheila D.
GGmaSAway D4 years ago

I have to agree with Tim that DCs timing was not good, but really don't think it was an intentional snub. Superheroes/heroines shouldn't be so tied down or their enemies will have an easier time finding their weakest spots - the spouse. Then there are the fans - not certain a majority of them would want their superheroes/heroines settled down that much.

Haven't kept up on the superheroes since my youngest moved out on his own so don't know if there are any married superheroes/heroines?? Last I knew there weren't.

Kathy Perez
Kathy Johnson4 years ago

now they are banning imaginary gay marriage too... wow

Tim A V.
Tim A V4 years ago

Comic books like most media fall into cliche story telling arcs, most superhero's have had someone that really matters get killed off and the closer they are the better a target for tearing the guts out of readers.

The fact her girlfriend has not been kidnapped, raped or murdered is kind of amazing; also if I was a superhero I would really be wary of getting married let alone long term relationships.

For the following facts: my calling is highly dangerous and tends to deal with people that are beyond normal means, I have a completely second secret life (secret relationship = BAD), family, friends and lovers keep you human but they also are a weakness for your enemies to exploit (and that is not fair put them at such risk).

The most cliche thing for them to do would be have their lesbian be the cliche media stereotype of a nesting lesbian.

This a touchy subject, but I do not see it as anti-LGBT; more horrible delivery and timing.

Then again while I think we should all have the same rights across the board, I personally find the idea of marriage silly.

Colleen W.
Colleen W4 years ago

Batwoman? There's a Batwoman? I thought it was Batman and Robin who where gay......

Val M.
Val M4 years ago


Christine Stewart
Christine S4 years ago

I'm just glad they allowed her to come out of the closet and have a relationship!

Bryna Pizzo
Bryna Pizzo4 years ago

We need to send petitions to DC Comics.

Bryna Pizzo
Bryna Pizzo4 years ago

This is ridiculous when one considers the fact that there are so many LGBT families, and the majority of the public accepts gay marriage.