Gay Soldier Comes Out to Dad to Mark DADT’s End (VIDEO)


Readers may remember the story of the gay soldier who in the lead up to the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) has been making a video diary talking about his experiences. Now, showing his face for the first time, the active duty soldier has recorded a new video in which he makes a very important phone call.

The soldier, whose video diary series has made national news and gone international through the blogosphere, was finally able to show his face in this video as Tuesday marks the repeal of the military’s ban on openly gay service personnel.

Watch below as the very nervous young man comes out in a phone call to his father. Please note there are a couple of swears so use your discretion:

You can watch the soldier’s other videos on his YouTube channel here.

Want more DADT repeal info? Click here for the LGBT Morning Mix that today is focusing on DADT’s demise.

Related Reading:

Gay Solider on How Air Force Band Video Outed Him

Gay Officer Comes Out to Fellow Soldier

SLDN Releases Post-DADT Service Guide

Image taken from YouTube video under Fair Use terms, no infringement intended.


Rebecca W.
Rebecca W5 years ago


Carla A.
Carla A5 years ago

That was beautiful watching the unconditional love between this soldier and his Dad. It's apparent that he has had a lot of shame about his sexuality. So glad that he was able to come out and be himself.
Blessings. Be well.

Cutter Two Wheels

wow, his dad took that a LOT better than his ma. i'd like to give him a big hug.

pam w.
pam w6 years ago

I'm so proud of him! I'd love to hug him and tell him how much I respect his courage and service.

wayne hall
wayne hall6 years ago

Well done for haveing the guts to go through with telling his dad his gay,you have my respect and admiration.

tiffany t.
tiffany t6 years ago

wow that was intense...poor guy shouldn't have to get that his dad....shows what pure, unconditional, never dying love is : ) I hope my daughter never worries about telling me about herself!

Jo Little
jo L6 years ago

Bravo to Dad! He handled it much better than Mom!! He was supportive, and made SURE his child knew he was loved - no matter what!

Sheri P.
Sheri P6 years ago

I have always had the unconditional love of my parents...glad this guy does too! That is the way it should be...

Jane L.
Jane L6 years ago

This guy is so lucky to have such supportive people around him. I wish him all the best. I'm glad he's been documenting this journey. Hopefully it'll aspire people to build up the courage/confidence to tell their story to loved ones and loved ones share the same reaction as this guy's father. Maybe one day we'll love each other more than what divides us.

Jane L.
Jane L6 years ago

Wow, didn't expect it to be so intense just watching this guy! His father's beautiful...and perfect. All you can do is love someone no matter who or what they are. Just beautiful!