Awaken Your Authentic Power

When I was twenty-five I became a devotee of the spiritual teacher Marianne Williamson. One of her books in particular hit me straight in the heart: A Woman’s Worth. After reading it, I was awakened to a power source within me I had never recognized before. This awesome awakening occurred upon reading the following passage:

“A queen is wise. She has earned her serenity, not having had it bestowed on her but having passed her tests. She has suffered and grown more beautiful because of it. She has proved she can hold her kingdom together. She has become its vision. She cares deeply about something bigger than herself. She rules with authentic power.”

At the time I couldn’t comprehend what it would feel like to “rule with authentic power,” but it sounded really groovy. I wanted to perceive myself as a powerful woman, but deep down I felt like a weak girl seeking my self-worth from outside circumstances. This passage helped me recognize that there were no shortcuts on the path to my authentic power. I would have to show up for life’s assignments and pass my tests to release all that was blocking me from being my highest self. I did just that. Soon after reading this passage I became a student of the metaphysical text A Course in Miracles and began to unlearn my false perception of myself.

For the past seven years I’ve been a student of the Course. Through my dedicated practice I’ve come to understand that my outside need for approval is what blocked my authentic power. I was searching for meaning in the meaningless world I had projected. My awareness of these blocks was the first step toward releasing them.

The spiritual journey I embarked on left me no wiggle room for small play. I had to surrender to a new perception and chose to seek my power in an internal condition rather than an external circumstance.

Once I became willing to stop looking out there and look inward instead, my entire life changed. I began to earn my serenity and learned to find my source of peace and purpose from an inward condition. My neediness melted away, my insecurity weakened and my self-doubt transformed into self-assurance. In time I became a queen, and today I live in my authentic power.

I work hard each day to maintain my authenticity. A major part of the maintenance process is to know the difference between what it feels like to be living in my truth versus living in my ego. When I’m living in my truth I breathe slowly, I feel fulfilled regardless of what’s going on in my external world, and I exude a genuine confidence that cannot be manufactured.

Living in my ego is quite the opposite experience. When I’m in my ego my energy is frantic, I compare myself to others and I try to be something I am not. Knowing the difference between living in my truth versus acting out from my ego keeps me conscious of when I’m not aligned with my authentic power. This awareness is the key to staying on a path toward authentic truth.

You too have the capacity to live in your authentic power. If you feel out of alignment in any area of your life, use my tools below to recalibrate your authenticity. Follow these steps and you’ll awaken a powerful force within that has been eager to come through you.

Step One: Become Conscious of When You’re out of Your Truth

This exercise will heighten your awareness of what it feels like to be in your truth in opposition to what it feels like to be out of alignment. Take out your pen and paper and describe the differences between what it feels like to be in your truth versus what it feels like to be in your ego. How do you act differently, talk differently, think and even breathe differently? Pay close attention to the differences in how you feel.

Step Two: Welcome the Assignments

I’ll let you in a powerful secret: When you begin to look at your ego’s false behavior, you’ve unconsciously asked for a miracle. The slight willingness to see things differently is the catalyst for spiritual shifts. These shifts can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable—but that’s a good thing. Remember that we must “pass our tests” to grow into our authentic power.

Step Three: Show Up For the Assignments

Welcome the life assignments that come your way and stay committed to connecting to your authentic truth. Have faith that there are no coincidences and that as the Course says, “no one is sent to anyone by accident.” Every experience you have will be a powerful opportunity for you to strengthen your internal condition. Continuously recite the prayer, “I am willing to know my truth.” Trust that you will be guided.

Step Four: Learn What Authentic Power Means to You

Authenticity is different for each person, but the one defining factor is that authenticity is a feeling, not an action. Throughout this process of awakening your authentic truth, you will come to feel an internal shift. You may not be able to put this shift into words. Simply trust that you’re being led to know much more than what you once perceived to be real. Allow this new feeling to pass through you, guide you and energize you to experience a newfound self-awareness.

Though these steps seem subtle, you can trust that they are igniting transformational shifts within you. Stay committed to this process and invite the energy of the Universe to support your assignments and spiritual growth. Be faithful that your authentic power is all you need to truly share your light with the world.

To learn more about your authentic power check out my lecture entitled, Your Highest Self – Awaken Your Authentic Power. Details Here.


Victoria Heby
Victoria Heby5 years ago

Wow - this I want to look at! Thank you!

Kiana S.
Kiana S5 years ago

Thanks for the article.

peggy p.
peggy p5 years ago

i am happy to say that i compare myself to no one and no one to myself. thus, i am happy with who i am..

Jane Barton
Jane Barton5 years ago

"Riches don't bring happiness."

Bullshit, rich people are HAPPY or why would they keep STEALING ALL OUR MONEY? Why would they keep starting WARS to STEAL EVEN MORE OIL? What a CROCK! Caring and consideration doesn't get you anywhere except in an early grave. Let's say I'm black and I was born in the SOUTH and I got no shoes on my feet. Where is my "sense of fun" gonna get me? Republican Nazis are laughable, they sit up there in their penthouses rolling in money and tell the rest of MONEY DOESN'T MATTER, it's your SENSE OF HUMOR THAT WILL PAY YOUR BILLS! Hahahahahaha

Sian R.
Sian R5 years ago

Jane B
"... you have to get attention to reach your goals in life."
Only if your goals are very shallow. The best way to reach higer and more worthwhile goals s to *pay attention.*

"In the case of young women, why are they lining up for tit jobs and spending billions on make up, sexy clothes and diet fads? .... it DOES get them a richer husband".

Riches don't bring happiness. Not unless they're accompanied by caring, consideration, loyalty, trustworthiness, wisdom - a sense of fun, even.
Think of the opposites to the qualities above, add 'riches' to the equation and then see how far down your list riches come as a desirable quality.

Quanta Kiran
Quanta Kiran5 years ago


J D.
Jeanette D5 years ago

Wow, ask and you shall receive, I have recently been seeing a person who is a practicing Shaman, She worked on me for 2-days on the 2nd day, we went deep, alot of old stuff surfaced, thing's I hadn't thought of in years,then the Cry fest was on for about 2-days at first I thought I was going backwards, But she explained I was peeling back layers of memory that had been stored, and in order for me to go forward and to heal and to become my AUTHENTIC SELF I had to release all of it.
And low and behold here is your Article.... Thank you so much for sharing.... Thank You God, Thank You Angels,
Loving Light Blessings,

Jane Barton
Jane Barton5 years ago

"Living in my ego is quite the opposite experience. When I’m in my ego my energy is frantic, I compare myself to others and I try to be something I am not."

Comparing ourselves to others is completely normal, isn't it? How can we not, since we have eyes to see. Why then would anybody "try to be something they're not"? Are they trying to live up to some "standard" or something? This has nothing to do with our "ego", this has to do with "competition" for "attention". And you have to get attention to reach your goals in life. Why "try to be something you're not" unless you are trying to "get what they have"? In the case of young women, why are they lining up for tit jobs and spending billions on make up, sexy clothes and diet fads? Does this get them a higher place in pie heaven?
Not from what I heard. But it DOES get them a richer husband.

Julie Dawson
Julie D5 years ago

Nice article, thanks!

Bee Hive
Fiona O5 years ago

A powerful journey. Thanks.