Best Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Someone Based on Their Love Language

Valentineís Day. Love it or hate it, itís almost upon us. (I know, wasnít it just Christmas?) A lot of people think itís just another excuse for retailers to get us to part with our moolah. But done right, it can actually be really special.

Rather than yet another heart-covered Snoopy card or stuffed animal (yawn), letís put some thought into celebrating the day of romance this year. Letís gift our significant other with something that speaks their love language.

THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES

If youíre wondering how on earth youíre supposed to figure out your partnerís love language, not to worry. Gary Chapman wrote a book called The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts.

When the initial head-over-heels-ness of a new relationship wears off and life resumes a sense of normality, we†forget to do the small things that let our spouse know we care.

Oftentimes, when we do remember, our efforts fall short of the mark. Not because we didnít try, but because we used the wrong language. When we learn to express love in our partnerís language, our efforts will almost always be appreciated.

Helpfully, discovering your love language is as simple as taking a quick online assessment. Based on your responses, it then identifies your primary love language, explains what it means and helps you use it to connect more intimately with your person.

WHAT ARE THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES?

Your love language essentially sums up what you value most in a relationship. For some people itís receiving a gift or token of appreciation, for others itís spending quality time with a loved one. When you know your partnerís love language itís suddenly a lot easier to understand why your last gift wasnít a hit with them.

Words of Affirmation

As it implies, this language uses words to affirm other people. Whether you express your love verbally, via text message or in an old school letter, doesnít matter. The important thing is to choose your words thoughtfully. Check out these presidential love notes for a little inspiration.

Gift idea: Grab a sheet of paper or open a new Word doc and get writing. Donít worry about being a literary genius or anything. Just focus on saying how you feel in an honest and heartfelt way. List the things you love most about them, big and small. Let them know you notice these things even if you donít always say as much.

Then,†roll it up, tie it with ribbon and add a wax stamp. You could also†wrap it in tissue paper or put it in an envelope covered in geeky stickers. You can†give it to them as is, but going the extra mile†with the presentation will knock†your home run right out of the ball park.

Acts of Service

For these people, actions speak louder than words. Thereís no point buying them roses or telling them how much they mean to you, they want you to show them. Something as simple as taking on the lionís share of the housework when theyíre stressed at work will mean the world to them.

Gift idea: Make a romantic Valentineís Day dinner for the two of you. If you canít cook, make something basic. The fact that you made the effort is what counts here. Also, and this is important, make sure you do the washing up afterwards.

Not feeling your inner-Nigella? What about making them a ‘Get Out of Housework’ free voucher to be used at their discretion? The fact that you’re willing to risk having to vacuum †and wash dishes at a moment’s notice is going to score you a bunch of points.

Receiving Gifts

For some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift. The trick is to give them something that shows how much you care. Take the time to make or buy a gift thatís personal, speaks to their tastes and shows you put a lot of thought into it.

Gift idea: Anyone can go to the store and buy a box of chocolates. You need to raise the bar a little higher than that. If hand making chocolate is too much of a stretch, then at least visit a quality chocolatier and put together a collection of their favorite flavors.

If you’re married to an earth-warrior, then make sure your gift is eco-friendly and if your spouse is vegan be sure to give them something that’s vegan friendly. A little effort and forethought goes a long way, is all I’m saying.

Quality Time

This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. They love the idea of the two of you hanging out together with no chance of being interrupted. The simple act of putting your phone away when you’re together will speak volumes.

Gift idea: Send the kids to grandma and have a romantic picnic in the lounge. Put on some music and just enjoy each otherís company. Without being too show-offy about it, make a point of letting them know your phone is not only on silent, but in another room entirely. It’s the little things.

Physical Touch

To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. Getting physical means the world to them. Sex is great, but so is†holding hands, hugging and†scooching up close on the couch to watch a movie.

Gift idea:†Give your love a Valentineís Day to remember with a massage that shows exactly how you feel. Set the scene with scented candles, soft music and romantic essential oils. Remember, itís about touch more than technique. Take your time and really get into the experience. Whatever you do, donít cop out and give them a massage voucher for some fancy spa. Thatís not the point.

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