Discovering Passionate Touch

Renowned sexual health educator and radio show host of Sex with Jaiya joins us today.  Jaiya works with couples and singles to help them overcome intimacy issues, and to deepen connection and communication, leading to the creation of more fulfilling relationships. Jaiya holds certifications as a Somatic Sexologist, Sexological Bodyworker, and Tantra Teacher.

When Random House needed a “hands-on” sex expert they sought out Jaiya and she co-authored the book, Red Hot Touch: A Head to Toe Handbook for Mind-Blowing Orgasms, with her co-teacher and partner Jon Hanauer. Through her body therapies she strives to eradicate sexual shame and invites those she works with to explore how much pleasure they can possibly experience. You may have seen Jaiya on Playboy’s #1 rated show “Foursome” as a Tantra Expert, The Tyra Banks Show talking about Alternative Relationships, or one of her many Sex with Jaiya videos as a spokesperson for Liberator. Jaiya features her work on her weekly syndicated radio show that draws hundreds of thousands of listeners.

Don’t miss her insights and hands-on wisdom from her book, , which teaches how to incorporate the miraculous capacity of our hands to ignite real passion into lovemaking. Together we explore the many layers of erogenous zones and the simple and effective techniques you can use to access intimacy through touch. This is an entertaining and informative conversation that will be sure to inspire the passion in your own intimate life.

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Wendy will be interviewed by Jaiya this Friday on the radio show Sex with Jaiya.

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Danuta Watola
Danuta W5 years ago

Thanks for the info.

Jane Barton
Jane Barton5 years ago

I feel your pain, Deborah. Don't you just feel like a hole? That's how I felt my whole life. From my own experience I found that men will touch and kiss for hours when they are young, horny and "in love". After around 30 their testosterone levels start going down, they aren't as horny and they get lazy and selfish. If you are married, they know you are trapped so why should they try? Women are naturally hard wired to give loving touch simply for reproduction and survival of the species. I think men are naturally programmed to hit and run and they have to be "taught" to cuddle. They don't really like to do it. I would like to hear from some men on this issue.

Deborah L.
Deborah L6 years ago

I remember those days of hours of touching, kissing and long ago, how I miss them. He no longer has that passion, & goes for the immediate satisfaction. SO unfulfilling & boring. Wish I could get him to reengage....

Carole R.
Carole R6 years ago


Asiatic Lion
Asiatic Lion6 years ago


Bon L.
Bon L6 years ago

Thanks for the info.

Fareena Narine
Fareena Narine7 years ago


Ernie Miller
william Miller7 years ago

great Info.

irene fernandez
irene Fernandez7 years ago

Yay for foreplay!

Mary Meijer
- M7 years ago

A loving touch is always helpful, soothing and caring, I think