Facing the Demons of Inaction

Most of the reasons for procrastination have to do with “internal barriers” like fear, anxiety, indecision, perfectionism, etc. I call these barriers the “Demons of Inaction.”

If we feel anxious about going for a job interview, we can’t will ourselves to feel relaxed and confident. If we experience doing our income taxes as frustrating and tedious, we can’t just snap our fingers and suddenly find the task satisfying and exciting. But if we adjust our action, and act in the face of our feelings, generally those feelings will change or subside naturally — much faster than if we explored or mulled or worried for a long period, but failed to act.

Traditional therapies generally suggest that you must conquer these demons through various strategies, such as insight, self-talk, motivation or increased self-esteem. But Morita Therapy is less about “conquering” than about “coexisting with.”

Morita Therapy doesn’t ask you to examine how you feel. Morita assumes that whatever you’re feeling, by focusing on it and picking it apart, you’re actually more likely to intensify it. It also assumes there’s no real reason to change it.

One of the main tenets of Morita Therapy is that our internal experiences — our feelings and thoughts — are inherent, essential and acceptable parts of us. They make us uniquely who we are, and they are largely uncontrollable by our will. By attempting to find their source, to adjust or eliminate them, we only amplify them and extend their natural life.

Rather than attempting to vanquish your anxiety about the job interview or examining it ad nauseam, you simply note your anxiety, accept it as normal for you, and then take it along for the ride.

Western therapy suggests that we must “fix” our feelings before we can take action. Morita Therapy recommends that we accept the presence of our feelings, and if a particular action is important to us — to our success, our expression, our priorities — that we move forward anyway. When you learn to do this, the “demons” lose much of their power, and many of the causes of our inaction naturally dissolve into constructive effort.

Seeing What Scares you

One of the most common obstacles to getting things done is fear. Strong feelings bubble up inside us. Our body tenses up. We begin to imagine the road up ahead — failure, embarrassment, rejection, discomfort, pain, even death. In the face of fear we may find ourselves “frozen” in an iceberg of inaction.

But fear is not necessarily our enemy. Fear can make us think twice about risky behavior. It can warn us to tread cautiously, or tell us we need more information. It can remind us there are very real, negative consequences we’d rather avoid. A surge of fear may prompt us in a healthy direction, in spite of the fact that it is disruptive to our inner harmony.

Several people I know have made dramatic and instantaneous changes in their diet and exercise regimen after having had a heart attack. This goes to show you that in some cases, fear can be an effective (if not particularly gentle) personal coach.

But often fear arises when we are not in imminent danger at all. We’re moving forward toward our dreams and are nervous about that. We’re taking action that involves risk — yet all action involves some risk. Even inaction involves risk.

So how do we stay on course when fear is making our hearts pound and our palms sweat? How do we keep fear from preventing us from doing what is important to do? We learn the skill of coexisting with fear.

Refusing to Fight

Morita Therapy says the best strategy for coping with fear is to simply accept it. Don’t try to fight it, talk yourself through it, understand it, or conquer it. Decide to cease focusing on your fear, and direct that energy toward action instead.

The Japanese use the term arugamama to describe the state of “accepting things as they are.” Many forms of martial arts use a similar philosophy. Rather than taking on your opponent directly, you use the energy of your opponent against him. That’s why a 120-pound woman can throw a 200-pound man. We defeat fear by refusing to fight it — by refusing to give it our attention. Instead, the effort goes into the task at hand, whether it be changing careers or jumping into a new relationship.

What is the secret of mastering this strategy for coping with fear? Practice.

Here’s how one woman describes her experience using Morita to work with her fear:

When I left my job after 13 years I initially felt as if I had lost my right arm. After I grieved my losses (loss of seeing friends every day, loss of routine, loss of steady income) I became very scared. I remembered the suggestion to feel the fear and do it anyway! This saying became my motto. When I was scared to make a networking call to someone I didn’t know, I would be petrified. Then I’d think of that saying, and make the call. Fear actually helped me — it energized me. My situation changed when I put the energy to good use instead of becoming anxious and fearful.

Working with fear is a skill. Think about some of the skills you’ve acquired in your lifetime? Typing, driving a car, yoga, music? All competence requires practice, and that includes mental health skills.

Once you’ve succeeded in getting past fear, you’ll find a similar strategy works with related demons: shyness, anxiety, boredom — even perfectionism (which is really just the fear of failure or not being good enough).

In Morita’s view, it is most often our focus on our imperfections, rather than the imperfections themselves, that prevents us from realizing our potential and living the most useful, meaningful and enjoyable lives possible. So if you are ready to make a change in your life, start with action, not by trying to change your own nature.

“Give up on yourself,” Dr. Morita advised. “Begin taking action now, while being neurotic or imperfect, or a procrastinator or unhealthy or lazy or any other label by which you inaccurately describe yourself. Go ahead and be the best imperfect person you can be and get started on those things you want to accomplish before you die.”


Get Going!

If you’re ready to end your habit of procrastination, here are the next four steps:
1. Identify an important, beneficial project or task about which you have been procrastinating.
2. What’s the next step you need to take? Name it, even if it’s just a small task like making a phone call.
3. Noting and accepting any uncomfortable feelings that come up, decide to take action anyway. When are you going to do this thing? Identify a specific day and time. You’ve just made an appointment with yourself.

And now the fun part …
4. Accompanied by trepidation, fear, doubts, indecision, shyness, anxiety or any other demon that happens to show up DO IT. Enjoy the experimental feeling of doing it even in the face of your other feelings.

No question about it: Taking action isn’t always pleasant. But in many ways, it is exhilarating, particularly when it is difficult!

Plus, look at the payoff over the course of a lifetime: a lot more accomplished and a lot less suffering, fretting and regret.

Feeling overwhelmed and underpowered? Do something anyway. As Joan Baez once said, “Action is the antidote to despair.”

Morita on Emotion

Action precedes feelings. Many of us devote considerable time and attention to “correcting” our feelings so that we will be free to act. When we overcome our ambivalence and “feel ready,” we say, we will improve our diets. When we overcome our fear, we will leave the job in which we have been miserable for years and look for work that calls upon our true interests and talents. When we learn to love ourselves, we will be able to establish an intimate relationship with another human being. Moritists approach the action-feeling connection from the opposite direction. They take action and correct the outside first, knowing that the inside, the feelings, will follow. — from the Morita Therapy Web site (www.morita-therapy.org)

By Gregg Krech, Experience Life

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Gregg Krech is the director of the ToDo Institute in Middlebury, Vt. (www.todoinstitute.org). He is the author of several books, including Naikan: Gratitude, Grace and the Japanese Art of Self-Reflection (Stone Bridge Press, 2002).


Nimue P.
Nimue Michelle P4 years ago

Thank you :)

Andrea Johnson
Andrea J4 years ago

thank you

Dave C.
David C5 years ago


Elisa F.
Elisa F5 years ago

Excellent article! Thanks for the info.

Melania Padilla
Melania P6 years ago


Yulan Lawson
Yulan L6 years ago

Thanks some great advice here.

Turid K.
Past Member 6 years ago

Morita Therapy is new to me.
Thank you,

Karen Foley
Karen P6 years ago

A GREAT post thank you. As the empress of procrastination, with a tendency to over-analysis, I will give this a go! NOW!

Eternal Gardener
Eternal G6 years ago


Ann M.
Ann M6 years ago

Life events seem to have ushered me into procrastination and I admit I am stuck. Recently found a therapist I hope can help me see my way out of this maze. And it is a maze for me. I'm taking a few sentences, making a little poster and sticking them in the two places I always visit...the bathroom and the door of the fridge! Thanks.