Like Daughter, Like Mother: The Consumer Doppelganger Effect

What the daughter does, the mother did. ~Jewish Proverb

This old Jewish proverb of unknown origins should likely be amended in light of some newly published research out of Temple University Fox School of Business. This new study reveals that teenage girls, those arbiters of cool consumer culture, hold a very strong influence, not just over one another, but over their own mothers and their consumer habits. These teenage girls passively, but often strongly, influence their mothers in their decisions on what to purchase; everything from makeup to skinny jeans, and mothers have more of a tendency to mimic their daughtersí consumer behavior, rather than vice versa. So, it is more like what the daughter does, the mother will also get around to doing.

“This finding provides initial support for the notion of reverse socialization and suggests that the impact adolescents have on their parents is much more profound than has been credited to them,” Dr. Ayalla A. Ruvio, lead author and an assistant professor of marketing, writes in a forthcoming Journal of Consumer Behavior article. This phenomenon has, along with making a lot of money on mothers who desire to have what their teenage daughters have, brought forth a new term: the consumer doppelganger effect. This is not exactly a pathology to be categorized, but more of a contemporary phenomenon that is likely a product of Gen X parents just not feeling all that old yet, and reflexively looking to their children for markers of style and verve that show a little more fun or dormant sexuality. According to the report, there is no word on whether there is corresponding effect with teenage boys and their fathers, but it would certainly be interesting to see how that was manifested if there were.

Would you say your children influence your consumption behavior (and I am not talking about compelling you to buy crap for them)? Is there anything worth noting about this so-called effect? Is it objectionable, or possibly something that forges a bond between mother and daughter? Have you witnessed such behavior in yourself, friends, or family members?

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Donna Hamilton
Donna Hamilton4 years ago


Vicky Barman
Past Member 5 years ago

thanks for sharing.

Danuta Watola
Danuta W6 years ago


Sue Matheson
Sue Matheson6 years ago


Lauren F.
Lauren F6 years ago

interesting. thanks.

Karen M.
Karen M.6 years ago

i have found that the teenagers these days are just copying the styles i was wearing 20 yrs ago. what goes around comes around

Mary B.
Mary B6 years ago

I'm a time travel fashion victom.I love long flowy things, blended colors, graceful draping fabrics, soft, silky ...but then I need to work in the garden and it's old baggy pants and loose shirts over sleeveless, strappy tops that I can catch a few rays in. My daughter is pretty conventional. likes sturdy good quality.I used to love going to the Reinisonce Fair just so I could make up colorful costumes to wear there.

Paula L.
Paula L6 years ago

Well, I grew up in a different grand daughters have called me old as Jesus. In a fun way, nothing hateful. We laugh about it. But no I never copied my mom and she never copied me that I am aware of. I never saw my mom even at 94 dress like her mother who passed at 85.

I do however like wearing Jeans, T-shirts and flip-flops at 68.
My mom never wore flip flops, she did however like her jeans. Not so much a Tee fan though. She liked her front button down blouses and shirts. I think the jean thingy was from the fact that we were both raised on a farm and so we pretty much grew up wearing Jeans. Copy Cats? I would say no!

dawn w.
Dawn W6 years ago

"Influence" doesn't have to mean" copy".

Dana A6 years ago

My daughter and I have our own styles ..she is aeropostale and I'm the Gap. No reason to try and compete I would look stupid running around with letters on my butt and Uggs. You can look fashionable for your age and keep up with trends without looking like a fool. She has definetly influenced me in the music category though.