Physically Stressed?

Letting go physically is a matter of stress release. Under stress your body tenses and contracts; breathing gets ragged and shallow; hormonal balances switch from their normal levels to the hypervigilant state of fight of flight. You cannot cope with all of this at once. In the overall plan taking part in a stress management program is a long-term commitment you should make, whether through meditation, yoga, or countless other options.

Stress is ongoing; therefore reducing stress also needs to be ongoing. In the short run letting go of stress involves relaxing. Take deep, measured breaths, letting the breath go free on the exhale. Lie down if you can and allow release to take place for as long as it needs to.

Signs of good release are yawning, sighing, silent sobs, coughing, sneezing, and feeling sleepy. Let your body do any or all of these things.

Other means of physical release besides breathing include laughing, screaming, shouting, taking a walk, swimming, taking a long bath, dancing, and doing aerobics.

Shaking out the stress does in fact work, at least partially. The intention here is to let your body release what it wants to. Your body doesn’t like holding on to stress; it does so essentially at the urging of the mind. Taking your mind off the situation and letting your body release its excess energies is a valuable step.

Under really extreme stress, walk away from the situation – tell anyone else who is involved that you need to be alone for a while to get your bearings. Offer reassurance that you will be back, and even if the other person puts pressure on you to stay, give yourself permission to do what you need to do for your own well-being.

Adapted from The Path to Love, by Deepak Chopra (Three Rivers Press, 1997).


Amandine S.
Past Member 5 years ago

Thanks for the article.

Frances Darcy
Frances Darcy5 years ago

If it is family members causing the stress I just rant ( and they ignore me) or go for a long walk...great stressbuster

JL A5 years ago

good reminders

Angie V.
Angie V6 years ago

wow good info... thanks

Amber Beasley
Amber Beasley6 years ago

whenever I get stressed at work - which is actually pretty rare - I stop, sit down, and focus on my breathing, letting my stress go and trying to focus on something happy and calming. it works great for me.

Sheri P.
Sheri P6 years ago

good reminders, thanks.

Dot A.
Dot A6 years ago

counting to '10' is an immediate kind of stress reducer when the walk isn't do-able
learned this one while in the food and restaurant industry

a walk is like magic, - you never see things the same way on the way back from a 'stress reliever' walk as when you left,...

and laughing - oh yes! if a little humor can cut the ice, and make the hard edges softer, by all means use humor, and to make it truly a stress reliever, remember not to put stress into the humor by using toxic humor, -that'll just be a stress creator, for it's harsh and meant to 'stick it to' somebody,...

reading these articles, - that's also a stress reducer ;)

Maureen Donaldson

Thanks for the great pointers!

Joy Wong
Joy Wong6 years ago


Mark S.
Mark Spiegel6 years ago

For Ron G. and anyone else who is wondering, Malgorzata Z. said (including me), "Everyone should work out their own way to (relieve) the stress."

No, I'm not that talented. I just used Google Translate.