True Story: The Best Run Ever!

Several months ago, I went on my nightly run, like I often do. When winding my way up the hills of Oakland, I decided to take a turn up a street that I hadn’t been on before. I was pushing myself physically so I could push my way mentally through all my Inner Mean Girl’s lies. The lies that tell me I’m not enough. The ones that say I am failing. The ones that complain of overwhelm and lack. (Yes, my dear ones, I coach what I am hungry for!) As I turned around to make my way back down the hill, I glanced at a house, only to see this gate:

Compassion & Gratitude. Wow. There it was like a beacon, reminding me of all things good in the world. Reminding me to be compassionate not only with others, but with myself. Giving me a wake-up call of how much I have to be grateful for.

I was floored.

I decided to immediately take out my phone and snap a picture to remember the moment.

So there I am standing in this random driveway, sweating and red-faced taking pictures of this gate when a car winds its way around the corner. Sure enough it is the owner of the house coming home from work. I felt embarrassed for a moment, thinking she must think I’m casing the joint or something. I give a smile and a wave and begin to make my way down the hill. The owner pulls into her garage.

And something stopped me (my Inner Wisdom?), telling me to turn around and express my appreciation for the gate. I slowly approach and say as her car door opens, “Excuse me? Hi! I just wanted to say thank you so much for your gate. It is beautiful.”

“You’re welcome,” the owner of the house replied, as she made her way out of her garage and met me in her driveway. “I got it on eBay after my divorce a while ago. My ex and I used to have a big sign that said ‘No Solicitors’ and I realized that sign belonged to him. And I needed a new way to greet the world. Compassion and Gratitude. That’s me.”

I got goose bumps as she spoke. We talked for a while. I told her I was a coach; she replied that she does leadership training. We laughed at the serendipity. And of course exchanged emails.

True Story.

So I ask you, my dear friends and fellow adventurers:

What is on your gate?

How are you greeting the world?

Please let me know by posting a comment! I always LOVE hearing from you!

With enthusiasm, love and fun,



Christine J.
Christine J1 years ago

Lovely story.

Carole R.
Carole R2 years ago

Wonderful story. Thanks for posting.

Janice Thompson
Janice Thompson3 years ago

Compassion and Gratitude - what a wonderful guide to life...

Debbie Crowe
Debbie Crowe3 years ago

Compassion & Gratitude - what a great way to greet the world.

Julia W.
Julia W3 years ago

Beautiful and inspiring. Thank you.

Mac C.
mac C3 years ago

What a lovely story and a nice way to meet a new friend. I love that just by changing the scenery your eye catches something new and special. Thank you, I enjoyed your post very much.

Elaine Bauer
Elaine Bauer3 years ago

Love this story, especially in light of the mainstream notion of what Oakland represents.
(Not usually thought of in benevolent terms!)

Genoveva M M.
Genoveva M M3 years ago

Thanks for sharing

Alexandra Ekdahl
Alexandra Ekdahl3 years ago

thank you for posting

Kathy K.
Kathy K3 years ago

Wow, what a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing.