What Are You Grateful For?

This is the time of year when gratitude touches all our lives, when we give thanks for whatever we have and we joyfully help others. One Thanksgiving day we volunteered at a local church to help feed the homeless. It was and still is one of the most heartwarming things we have done, as they were so very thankful: older people, single people, couples, families. It was a gentle reminder to us to be grateful for what we have.

It’s not always easy to be thankful, especially when times are hard, if we are sick, have lost a partner, job, or home. But perhaps those are the very best times to give thanks – for the things we do have, rather than those we don’t have. Rather than bemoaning that we have lost our health we can be grateful for the birds singing outside or the sun warming the window; rather than being jealous of someone who has a job while we don’t, we can be grateful for the free time to spend with ourselves or a loved one.

Deb grew up in England so she didn’t encounter Thanksgiving until she moved to the US in her twenties. Not knowing its history, she just saw it as a wonderful opportunity to remember appreciation and gratitude for all the things that she normally took for granted.

For instance, take a moment right now to appreciate the chair you are sitting on as you read this. Just consider what went into the making of this chair: the wood, cotton, wool or other fibers, the trees and plants that were made into these materials, the earth that grew the trees, the rain and sun, the animals that were involved, the people who prepared the materials, the factory where the chair was made, the designer and carpenter and seamstress, the shop where you bought it—all this just so you could be sitting here now.

Or think of your body and all the different organs and functions and systems that sustain your life, such as your heart, your digestion, or your immune system that protects you from illness. Or the food that nourishes you and where it came from and all the people and plants and weather and transport that were needed to get that food on your table.

You can apply this to everything as nothing is unrelated or disconnected, every single thing is a part of everything else and all are needed to make a whole. It’s so huge, there is no beginning place. There is just an endless stream of connectedness that has come together to enable you to be here right now, in this moment, reading this, sitting on your chair. And you still don’t think you have anything to feel grateful for or worth appreciating?

We invite you to develop an ongoing relationship with gratitude by making a list of things to “remember to appreciate.” You can do this hourly, daily, weekly, finding different things to appreciate each time. Anything can go on that list: each other, toenails, trees, sunshine, the washing machine, walking, hot water, grapefruit, flannel sheets…

What’s on your list? As Thanksgiving is here, let us all try to take some time to say thank you for all those things we usually ignore. Then say “Thank you!” again. Say it out loud over and over. We can never have enough gratitude, let it fill every moment, every thought and every feeling. Experiencing gratitude is totally transforming.

Let us also discover what we can do to make someone else’s life a little easier, or even to ask for help we may need. As our friend Barbara Wilder, author of Money is Love, says, “No matter how little you have, there is always someone who has less.  Give whatever you can to someone who could use a little help, and be open to receiving help from others.”


See our award-winning book: BE THE CHANGE, How Meditation Can Transform You and the World, forewords by the Dalai Lama and Robert Thurman, with contributors Jack Kornfield, Jon Kabat-Zinn, Byron Katie and many others.

Deb is the author of the award-winning YOUR BODY SPEAKS YOUR MIND, Decoding the Emotional, Psychological, and Spiritual Messages That Underlie Illness.

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Dick Reed
Dick Reed5 years ago

I am thankful that I am not MONEY wealthy I see what it has done for those who have sought it. Thanks to God, the beauty of Nature, the love of my dog, and my health. My only desire is to help the needful in this world, not just humans, but all the creatures that have been terrorized by thoughtless greedy humans.

Tessa De Veras
Tessa De Veras5 years ago

FREEDOM !!!!!!

Shelly Peterson
Shelly Peterson5 years ago

Life, YOU and Care2, so that i may have a voice in our life!

J.L. A.
j A5 years ago

good reminders

Dresia Vaughn
Dresia Vaughn5 years ago

I'm thankful for these:

1. The three in one.
2. I still have my mother
3. I'm in good health for my age
4. Blessed with what I've been blessed with, a job, a home.
5. Our four legged friends we love and loves us dearly.

Bonnie M.
Bonnie M5 years ago

So much to be grateful for- freedom, food and shelter, and many more. Love at times demands a great price, and questionably begs scrutiny when all is lost and rendered meaningless.I am also grateful for the battles that come my way- obstacles that seem insurmountable and hurtful, but ultimately, the priceless lessons to get past all these surely makes me grateful and stronger.Peace to all, as elusive as it may seem at times.

Gloria D.
Gloria Diaz5 years ago

I learn in t he Bible the power of gratitude, since them I applied to my life and I saw thing changing around me, but it was because I was changing inside me! Thank God for a wonderful book of healing that the Bible is!

Gloria and Jack Howe
.5 years ago

I am most grateful for being alive and healthy!

Emma S.
Emma S5 years ago

I've been keeping a gratitude book on and off for a while now, and it does seem to help. The early part of this autumn was a really difficult time for me, and this was compounded with terror about lack of funds, with nothing on the horizon. Two of the things that kept me going were prosperity affirmations and remembering gratitude - things really do seem to have pulled round this month, with gifts and opportunities. It's hard to 'keep the faith' sometimes (you can feel a bit Micawberish), but it does seem to work.

I'm British, too, but it's nice to be invited to participate in Thanksgiving!

Jennifer C.
Past Member 5 years ago