When Your Cat Charity Donations Are Questioned

While I was an undergraduate, I spent many days on the phone or on my feet fundraising for causes I believed in. The job was not easy. You were scolded for interrupting dinner, lectured on the amorality of your hot-button social cause, and outright violently rejected with a slammed phone or door. On more than one occasion, I’ve gone back to my 19-year-old self trudging through San Diego with a clipboard trying to get people to care about the fate of the Pacific Ocean and I’ll pony up a donation to my mirror image in front of Whole Foods just so they can reach the daily quota — even if I am a little ambivalent about the cause. This means I’ve ended up on a lot of call lists, which ring me up more around the holidays.

My go-to response is that I am happy with my current levels of charitable contributions. I have automated monthly payments to two cat shelters I trust, and contribute to other causes when I feel so inclined. Though most callers and the occasional door-knocker graciously accept when I decline their efforts, I once received an unexpected reaction from a caller, “Well, do you care more about animals than children?”

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It was a call from an international children’s charity that I won’t name, since I am absolutely certain that the caller was just off-script and hadn’t thought about how aggressive that particular pitch was. But the truth is, the sentiment is one that people who care deeply about animals are often confronted with, not only by well-meaning fundraisers. While most people commend the efforts of animal activists and enthusiasts, am I the only one who has gotten a little grief for it?

There are many people who are baffled by the love of animals and even more who are baffled by the love of cats. I have come to accept that not everyone connects to or loves cats as much as I do and I don’t waste time trying to convert them unless they are going to become part of my life. But there is a dangerous leap in logic that having a passion for animal rescue and welfare means a disinterest or lack of care for other issues. It is often accompanied by a not-so-subtle suggestion that our passion is childish and certainly a low priority among others. Such assertions are completely misguided.

To suggest that giving to animal causes means a lack of care about other things presents a false dichotomy, which taken to its logical conclusion is ludicrous. Attempting to rank and categorize the plethora of issues that nonprofits, charities, and political entities address, and then deciding that only the top priority should receive funding, is a recipe for disaster. Different types of suffering and injustice are concurrent and immeasurable. We shouldn’t put a moratorium on peace efforts because poverty is more pressing. We shouldn’t stop our efforts to save the whales until we’ve saved the trees. We don’t have to cure AIDS before we work on cancer. And giving to animals is not some backhanded way of taking away from children.

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When I was first looking for a job after I graduated from college, I was told by an advisor, “What breaks your heart? Figure out what breaks your heart and then go out and work on unbreaking that part of the world.” The trouble is, the world is a heartbreaking place full of hunger, violence, neglect, and apathy, so there are lots of opportunities to be heartbroken by it. But the neglect and disregard I have witnessed humans inflict on cats has always struck an especially tender nerve. From my earliest memory, cats have been members of my family, and the thought that there are so many who must scavenge for food and shelter and avoid violence from animals and humans alike is an injustice that I feel especially drawn to combating.

The feeling is a visceral one. It is physically painful for me to consider how many cats are neglected, abandoned, abused, and killed every day. Knowing how close the many cats I’ve had in my life were to a similar fate makes it that much more important for me to give to causes that prevent additional suffering for cats who have not yet and might never find homes. It seems so cruelly arbitrary which cats end up with cushy home lives among humans that love them and those that die alone in the streets. It is something that breaks my heart.

It seems like a strange thing to say, but I am grateful to live in a world where people are heartbroken over a lot of different things. It should not be the responsibility of a hypercompassionate person to address all types of suffering in the world. It should be the responsibility of everyone to tap into the compassionate and generous parts of themselves to address what they find particularly heartbreaking.

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I once read about a woman who started a nonprofit with the sole purpose of alerting her community to the dangers of potholes and seeking to get them all repaired. I laughed at first at someone who seemed to have too much time on her hands, but you know what, good for her! I bet the roads are safer for it. I can’t personally be brought to care about potholes, and some people can’t be brought to care about cats. That’s fine. But there is no need to judge the charitable priorities of others who are generating a net-positive by giving to a cause that is directly involved in preventing additional suffering in the world.

So I think that people should give what they can, when they can. Whether it’s to prevent suffering in something the size of an ocean or a forest or a whale or something as small as a cat, your heart will be bigger for it.

What about you? Have you ever had to defend your animal charity contributions?

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This post was written by Alana Massey, regular contributor to Catster Magazine.


Carrie-Anne Brown

thanks for sharing :)

Panchali Yapa

Thank you

Panchali Yapa

Thank you

Alexander H.
Alexander H4 years ago

Very interesting article .. thanks a lot for sharing!!! :)

Rosemary H.
Rosemary H4 years ago

Here we go again...

To stop these remarks from rankling, you need a coping strategy. Something that will turn the situation around so you can laugh at these people instead of being upset. I have an example. Dedicated horse-and-bird person that I am, I did promote a petition against sex-trafficking and rape of under-aged girls. I did this tirelessly, often being on my feet all day, and the signatures numbered thousands!

Of course there were times when I addressed a male chauvinist idiot - in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if I'd approached some rapists. I didn't feel I could ignore their attitude, neither did I want an argument. I had a postcard in my clipboard. It simply stated: 'Before opening mouth, engage brain in gear!' I'd show it to them and laugh!

Can you think of something like this?

Rosemary H.
Rosemary H4 years ago

Another thought, because this article hit a nerve in me.

Have you ever met a nice warm caring person (caring about humanity, that is) who didn't also love animals? No! If you come to grief and need sympathy, and turn to one of these people who 'love humans too much to have time for animals' what do you get? Shallow excuses why they don't have to bother!!!

Rosemary H.
Rosemary H4 years ago

Catster, I personally am not a cat person. I'm a horse and bird person. However I'm sure I know Exactly how you feel! I think your words are worth quoting!

"I am grateful to live in a world where people are heartbroken over a lot of different things. It should not be the responsibility of a hypercompassionate person to address all types of suffering in the world. It should be the responsibility of everyone to tap into the compassionate and generous parts of themselves to address what they find particularly heartbreaking."

You know what I think the reality is? Some people are just more compassionate than others. Have you ever needed care and compassion for your own predicament? Who do you receive it from? People who also love animals! What do you discover about the people who flaunt their 'concern' for humanity. They are cold-hearted anyway!

Carole R.
Carole R4 years ago

Of course we should donate to animal charities. It's nobodies business what we spend our money on.

Sara bostic
Sara Bostic4 years ago

First, I'd like to say that this was a well thought out and well written article and I really enjoyed reading it.
A few years back, I was watching Animal Planet and it was a story that focused on this wonderful elderly woman who lived somewhere in New York City. Every day she would prepare warm food and go out by herself to bring some joy to the dogs that live in scrap yards and are held there by their owners to protect and guard what is essentially junk. I wanted to hug her for doing such a wonderful thing and having such a good heart. She brought a warm meal and a kind hand to dogs that essentially had no life at all.
But then, as she was pushing a bowl of warm food under the fencing towards one of the dogs, this stranger approaches her and asks her angrily why she wasn't giving to people rather than animals. That took me off guard for a moment but in the next moment it made me angry. I mean,
who was he to question her or to tell her what to do with 'her' time, 'her' resources, and 'her' life?
This article made me remember this wonderful woman who gave what she could and did so selflessly. God bless her and everyone who follows their conscience and their heart and does what they feel to be the right thing to do.
For me, animals and their well-fare are very important. I've had animals in my life from the time I was little - birds, fish, turtles, hamsters, guinea pigs, cats, and dogs. All of them loved and well cared for. I can't stand the cruelty and suffering that

Ans Weevers
Ans Weevers4 years ago

Never, never be afraid to do what’s right, especially if the well-being of a person or animal is at stake. Society’s punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way.
Dr. Martin Luther King